The child has a bad temper.
1, reasons for shortcomings
The family atmosphere is tense, parents often quarrel or parents often beat and scold their children, which makes them nervous and anxious for a long time and will subconsciously imitate adults.
Negative reinforcement of parents. As soon as the child loses his temper, parents will compromise to meet the various needs of TA, thus strengthening the child's behavior.
2, the correct response
Parents should set an example, control their emotions, improve the family environment, and don't get angry at will.
Keep the bottom line of principle and don't compromise because of the unreasonable troubles of children; At the same time, pay attention to children's emotions and guide them to express correctly.
Second, children don't know right from wrong.
1, reasons for shortcomings
Parents love and indulge their children too much, and always feel that their children are still young, and they can understand their mistakes and even force others to understand and forgive them. Parents don't correct their children in time, which leads to the imperfect concept of right and wrong, and they can't distinguish right from wrong or deliberately confuse right and wrong when they encounter things.
2, the correct response
Learn to communicate with children, understand their dynamics, analyze the right and wrong of daily events with children and tell them what to do. Encourage children to do good things in time, punish them if they are wrong, and help them point out why they are wrong.
Third, children like to lie.
1, reasons for shortcomings
Children lie in order to avoid punishment or get rewards, or they are punished excessively for their mistakes, or parents expect too much from their children, so children can only lie.
In order to attract parents' attention and achieve a certain purpose, such as children being neglected or not wanting to go to school, they lied that they were ill.
2, the correct response
When a child lies, parents should know the ins and outs of the matter at the first time, understand the matter and the child's real thoughts, and explain the truth, instead of accusing the child, and then make corresponding punishment according to the situation.
Fourth, children retreat and escape.
1, reasons for shortcomings
If parents are too autocratic and strong, children will become weak, timid and inferior. Once you encounter difficulties, you will stop and lack confidence.
Parents always attack and blame their children, which will make them fidgety and depressed, and they don't believe that they can do things well.
2, the correct response
Improve children's self-adjustment ability and adaptability, and let children know how to think when facing things.
Teach children to know themselves objectively and correctly, maintain a positive attitude towards life, and face their own shortcomings frankly.
V. Children's Egocentricity
1, reasons for shortcomings
Children are the center of the whole family, and others should live according to the meaning of TA, so that children will think that they don't need to observe their words and deeds and only care about themselves.
Children have unreasonable demands, even if parents know it is wrong, as long as the children make trouble, parents will give in.
2, the correct response
Parents should shift the focus of family attention in an interesting way, treat the child as an independent person and treat TA as a person like family members.
Parents should set an example for their children, share more in life, formulate sharing rules, and let children know the rules of sharing order, waiting and rotation.
Sixth, children don't respect others.
1, reasons for shortcomings
Parents have no respect for the weak, and children will also be affected. They think the weak are not worthy of respect. Over time, it is easy for children to swear at will.
2, the correct response
Set a good example in front of children and be modest and polite to others outside, and children will be positively influenced.
Parents should pay attention to their children's rude behavior, guide and correct them in time, and establish their correct values.