In China families, parents often pretend to be nurturers and guides, but ignore that children are also independent individuals. This article will reveal three misunderstandings of family education in China, and help parents better understand their children's needs and feelings, and establish a harmonious family relationship.

Don't trust children.

Many parents feel that if they are not strictly disciplined, their children may go astray. But the fact is that too much intervention will only make children lose their ability of self-management and become passive. You know, trust is the best fertilizer for growth!

Think of children as machines.

Many parents want their children to be obedient, but they ignore that children also have feelings. Emotional isolation will only make children's problems worse. Remember, children are not machines, they need love and understanding.

Parents think too much of themselves.

In order to look perfect in front of children, many parents suppress their needs and feelings. This not only puts a lot of pressure on children, but also makes parents exhausted. Communication is two-way, and the true self can establish real connections.