How to educate boys? 1, know how to let go. In life, we should try our best to let go of the treatment of boys in early adolescence, don't hold on too tightly, give boys as much freedom and choice as possible, and let boys enjoy their own happiness and accept their own consequences. What parents should do is to tell boys clearly that life is full of choices, and the consequences of every choice, good or bad, must be borne, so parents should be cautious about every choice.
2. companionship. Boys in early adolescence need their father's company. Many men can ask their father questions and doubts, or refer to his handling methods. Dad should try to participate in all aspects of the boy's growth, let the boy know what a man is, what a man usually does, and how a man can solve problems at critical moments. Studies show that boys who grow up with their fathers have no emotional barriers and harmonious interpersonal relationships.
3. Respect them. Respect your child. Only by respecting him will you know how to respect your parents. Let the child say that it is right or wrong, and let him finish before commenting. Children don't think they have grown up, are they adults? When there are important events at home, you can also let him know, listen to your child's views on things, and let him know that his parents respect him and have a say at home.
4. Let them make their own decisions. 12 year old boys have their own choices about what they like. Parents should not interfere too much, let alone make decisions for boys. They should respect boys' learning styles and interests, as well as many learning and practical opportunities that parents can provide.
5. Physical exercise is very important. When dealing with boys aged 12, parents should guide them to fall in love with sports. If they have the ability to make plans with boys, they should exercise with their children. Exercise is not only conducive to brain development and limb stretching, but also conducive to the formation of a healthy body and a sound personality, which can cultivate children's self-confidence.
6. Cultivate boys' reading habits. Parents should try their best to guide 12-year-old boys to read more books, contact books and models in more fields as much as possible, and guide their children to have interest and curiosity in astronomy, geography, biology, modern science and technology and many other fields, because adolescence is the most curious period for children, and at this time, parents' behavior has a certain influence on their children. So parents should seize the last stage of adolescence when boys can help.
7. Establish good communication. At this time, children's self-awareness is enhanced and they don't like to communicate with their parents. Their minds are mature, and they often like to do things by themselves. At this stage, parents should actively communicate with their children, understand their thoughts and cultivate their feelings.