Cao Xueqin describes Lin Daiyu as cold outside and Baochai as cold inside. There is no doubt about it, because this is what Cao Xueqin wants us to see. Baochai is warm and generous, and these advantages cannot be ignored. But she is bent on marrying Jia Baoyu, because only by marrying Jia Baoyu can Fu Xue survive and protect herself.
Lin Daiyu has a straightforward temper and is not liked by Jia people. But he is Jia Fu's successor and Jia Baoyu's sweetheart. Although we liked each other, we didn't get together in the end. And Lin Daiyu's maids all hate Lin Daiyu. Because Lin Daiyu's emotional intelligence is very low. I don't like my elders all day, and I'm cold to my servants.
I remember the first two sentences in the twelve gold chains are "jade belt hangs the forest, treasure chai hides the snow" This sentence is about Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochai. Moreover, in the TV series, these two Jin Chai are in the same painting. Therefore, Bian Xiao thinks that Xue Baochai still sympathizes with Lin Daiyu, which is more likely. After all, the people in the dream of the Red Chamber are more tragic.