13-year-old children are in the rebellious period of adolescence, and many parents are always at a loss because of physical development and psychological changes. In fact, children don't listen to teaching because preaching is no longer effective for children. Parents may wish to change their education methods. Parents should understand their children's internal characteristics, have empathy for their children, and be able to think from their perspective. The relationship with children is both a teacher and a friend, and many problems are solved.

Second, educate children not to treat them simply and rudely.

If so, it will be counterproductive. Pay attention to ways and means, communicate with children more, understand his hobbies, and then make some rules. Reward should be something that children are interested in, and children will be motivated. If you persist for a long time, the child will get better gradually.

Third, set a good example for children.

You can give boys a good goal, give them a direction to move forward, and take a better example as an example to have the motivation to do things. Pay attention to inner persuasion, because 13 boys are mostly in adolescence, and adolescence is often rebellious. When parents reason with their children, they should give priority to persuasion and avoid beating and cursing, otherwise it will cause children's nervousness. But it is not conducive to discipline.

Fourth, more correct and healthy communication.

The formation of any good relationship is inseparable from healthy communication. When your child knows that he can talk to you about anything, he will be more inclined to ask for your help and guidance. Give children some rights that they can get. If your child wants something beyond the budget, please tell him how to get it. If you don't do this, don't satisfy him.

Fifth, learn to understand and tolerate children, and don't always be reluctant.

Listening and communication are the basis to solve children's rebellious psychology. As a parent, you should observe your child's behavior and acceptable communication methods. Before you talk about your child, listen to his own thoughts and ask him why he did it, how he felt after doing it, what he wanted others to think of him, and what he wanted to do to get rid of what he did. Only by knowing the real reason of the child's rebellion can we resolve his rebellion. Give full play to the role of father. Compared with communicating with an anxious mother, the father's rationality and its image in the child's heart are easier to enter the child's heart, so the father must participate in the child's growth.

Sixth, avoid quarreling and let the children bear the consequences.

Make reasonable and strict rules, let the children bear the consequences of not obeying the rules, and don't quarrel with them. Let your child know exactly what your reasonable expectations are for him. If you leave your child alone on the playground or want him to study, please tell him what you want him to do if you encounter some foreseeable problems, and tell him what you want him to do in his study.