Although we always emphasize trusting children, giving them time and believing in their learning ability and inner potential, in real life, many parents always destroy their learning opportunities in one way or another and convey a distrust attitude to their children. What can I do to make my children feel your trust? This is a big and small problem.
To say it's big depends on whether parents can unconditionally start from their children's standpoint and look at the cause and effect of things. No matter what happens, they should listen to their children's hearts. To say that it is small is whether parents can let go of their children's hands and let them try in daily life. Even if the children make some mistakes, it is not too late for you to help them clean up the mess. It is very important to give them a chance to try and make mistakes.
Learn to decorate your children foolishly. Parents can make full use of table time and share the performance of each family member during the day. Take my Dabao as an example. Every day when she comes back, she will tell some interesting things in class. Sometimes she will bring back some difficult problems and ask us how to solve them. Ma Bao and I pretend to think about this problem every time, and then ask her how to solve the thinking problem in the Olympic Mathematics. Children will proudly write questions on the whiteboard, and I nod thoughtfully every time. Then I'll talk about some of my solutions. Although children have not yet understood it, such mutual learning and communication is a "catalyst" for mutual trust. When children trust their parents, they will have a heart-to-heart talk with them. Of course, the more parents know about their children, the greater their trust in them.