First, cultivate children's interest in learning.
Interest in learning is the motivation of children's conscious learning, and interest is the best teacher. If children have a strong interest in learning, they will naturally not regard learning as a chore. We often see that some children are very interested in computers. They are willing to read many books about computers voluntarily. They are also willing to use computers to learn new knowledge and find information. Nowadays, many educational websites use distance education to guide children's interest in learning. Therefore, parents and teachers should know their children's interests from time to time and guide and cultivate them to promote their healthy development.
Second, let children taste the taste of success.
Many children don't like studying, mostly because they always fail in their studies and their test scores are always inferior to others. Therefore, it is necessary to proceed from the reality of children, appropriately set learning goals for children, and give practical and effective help, so that children can achieve their goals through hard work and gain a successful experience. Successful experiences will inspire children to continue their efforts and make him progress. For those naughty children who like to play but don't like to learn, I hope teachers and parents will still maintain a respect for them. There is a power beyond them that we still can't understand. The purpose of any real education is to cultivate lifelong learners and make them feel deeply connected with the people around them and nature. Such children should be able to think clearly and independently and have the skills to survive and develop in society. Every child needs to experience the joy of success in learning activities and feel that he is a citizen of the world in learning. "
Many things in the world can be done as long as you want, and the difficulties you should overcome can also be overcome. You don't need any iron will, let alone any skill or strategy. As long as a person is living a simple and interesting life, he will eventually find that the creator's arrangement for the world is natural. We dare not do it not because it is difficult, but because we dare not do it.
Third, cultivate attention from an early age.
Children don't like learning, which is often related to inattention. Classroom teaching requires concentration for at least 20 minutes, but some children can only concentrate for a few minutes. There are many things that they didn't hear or understand when they were "absent-minded". As a result, their grades are poor, they gradually lose their confidence and interest in learning, and then they don't like learning. Therefore, we should cultivate children's attention from an early age. Some children are born with inattention, which requires parents' long-term efforts.
Russian educator ushinski once said, "Attention is the skylight of the soul". Only by opening this window of attention can the sunshine of wisdom fill the audience. Attention is the basic ability of children's study and life. The quality of attention directly affects children's cognitive, social and emotional development, as well as their academic performance after entering school.
1. Create a quiet and simple environment. According to this feature, parents should eliminate all kinds of factors that may distract their children's attention and create a quiet and simple material environment for their children.
2. Have a regular life. The pace of a child's life and the length of various activities will affect his attention. Therefore, parents should pay attention to arrange their children's life and rest.
3. Cultivate children's self-discipline ability. Poor self-control of children is another important reason why attention is easily distracted. When a new stimulus appears, adults can restrain themselves from paying attention to it, but it is difficult for children to do so. Therefore, in order to cultivate children's attention, adults can consciously create situations and gradually improve children's self-discipline ability.
4. Cultivate children to pay attention to the breadth of things. Another manifestation of children's poor attention is that they can't pay attention to multiple things at the same time. So parents should consciously design some activities to cultivate children's attention span.
5. Stimulate children's interest and demand for activities. Interest and need are the internal driving force of children's activities and the emotional system that directly affects children's attention. In order to keep children's continuous interest in an activity, parents should pay attention to the difficulty of the activity content to suit their children's level, so that children can feel certain challenges while experiencing the happiness of success. If the content of the activity has nothing to do with the child's previous experience, the child does not have enough experience preparation and ability preparation, and the task of the activity is beyond his control, even if the form is vivid and interesting, it will not attract their attention; If the task is too difficult, it is not challenging for the child, and the child will not be interested and unable to concentrate.
6. Define the purpose and requirements of the activity. Attention serves the task. The clearer the task, the more urgent the desire to complete the task, and the more focused and lasting the attention. To make a child's attention last, adults should not force him to do anything, but let him know why he should do it and stimulate his desire to do it well. Therefore, before the activity, parents should help their children to clarify the purpose and requirements of the activity. During the activity, parents should remind their children in time so that their attention always points in a certain direction. For example, parents and children plant a bean and put it on the windowsill. In the first few days, children may often come to have a look out of curiosity. But after a long time, the interest tends to fade, and naturally it will not come to visit. If parents can say to their children before planting beans, "this bean will soon grow long green leaves." If you see it sprouting, come and tell your mother at once. " This gives the child a task. In order to complete the task given by his mother, he must always pay attention.
In short, excellent parents help their children by providing them with a good growth environment, finding an effective learning helper, encouraging them from beginning to end, and encouraging them to stick to it, persevere and persevere. In this way, their children have also become successful, and their parents are relieved and gratified.
The above is my advice to you, hoping to help your children's education.