Too authoritative.
Adults are still too authoritative. It is also a matter of habit and cultivation. Nowadays, adults, especially men, basically have absolute authority to children.
The influence of family atmosphere
Children are not so naughty when they are born, but suddenly they feel naughty when they grow up. This requires the subtle influence of process and family atmosphere. Sometimes parents don't like to find essential questions.
The way of education needs self-correction.
When educational methods need self-revision, they often feel that they are not wrong, as long as they make their children better. Finally, several methods were changed to no avail. Say your child is hopeless. In modern society, this is basically a common problem in families.
Get along with children on an equal footing
Everyone is anxious. Will be angry with the child. But think about it, we are equal with children. Although the child's life is given by us. But it doesn't mean that children can do whatever they want.
The essence of children has been neglected.
Modern children have taken on too many things and basically lost their original essence. This is the saddest place.