First, the most fundamental companionship is not to leave children to the elderly, but to take care of them. I will also have some time to eat and live with my children after work and on weekends, so I can take care of my children's homework. But when I am with children, most of my spirit is not on children, but on mobile phones and TV. Such companionship can only be accompanied at most. Mother is the first child to come into contact with. If children are not accompanied by their mothers, ordinary children are more likely to be timid than introverted when communicating with their peers, and cannot establish contact with their parents' feelings.
Second, a higher level of companionship is that I take care of my children at home full time, but I don't face them with a good mood. Instead, I lose my temper with my children from time to time, and there is a strong smell of gunpowder everywhere in my home. With such company, such children will become anxious and timid for fear of accidentally angering their hard-working parents.
Third, the really good high-quality companionship is that I spend as much time with my children as possible. When facing my children, I can always control my emotions, and the side I show my children is always positive and pessimistic, with a gentle and loving smile on my face every day, so that the children's hearts will be nourished by their parents' warmth; While accompanying children, understand their growth psychology at each stage, and stop guidance and guidance according to their psychology. Read with children, cultivate children's good reading habits and develop good living habits. When the child is wronged, parents can be around to comfort the child, reason from the child's perspective, and let the child be educated.
Mom and dad are the best teachers for children. The high-quality companionship of mom and dad will have a key impact on children's personality and will have a great impact on children's values and marriage views. If you love children, you will give them loving companionship.