Strict management of a child is not the best way. Some children may be suitable for this method, but some children will not use it. Strict management requirements are not impossible, but the focus is on appropriateness. Some children are more stressed when they come back from school and want to have a rest, but some parents say this and that, which is much more demanding for their children and can't be accepted by them. Therefore, after the child comes home, try to let the child relax and don't make the child too tired. When the child wakes up, tell the child what happened to him. Otherwise, children will be bored and dissatisfied with you. In severe cases, children will not want to go to school and find everything difficult and unacceptable. Some children even choose to escape. Some of these phenomena are caused by the negligence of parents.

Arbitrary parents all say that "golden hoops make good people", but this is actually an inaccurate statement. People should study their character well when they are young, and discipline them well when they grow up. So people can be properly educated when they are young, but they can't do it too hard. Beating children is not to show others, but to educate them not to make the same serious mistakes again. Scold him too, not for others, but to teach him the truth of being a man. What children instill from childhood is very important, so we should tell them some reasonable stories from an early age and teach them to be good-tempered and tolerant of others. It is very important for children to form self-regulating emotions. During school, a stressed child doesn't know how to adjust his emotions, which will make him unable to figure out something. I can't handle it. I'm in trouble for myself. When children are frustrated, try to give them some appropriate encouragement. Let children learn good habits. Don't spoil your child too much when he is young, it will make him develop bad habits. Cultivate children from an early age, find children's interests and develop them into children's interests. We should not let them play every day, but teach them some knowledge and truth in their spare time.

Children in junior high schools are generally in a rebellious period. When they are in a rebellious period, even the best people will be a little abnormal. At this time, the children thought that what he did was right. Some children will go against their parents. The performance of rebellion is that you say this is good and he says that is good. If you do this, he will do that. Against parents. Meanwhile, overbearing parents should restrain his rude behavior. During this period, most children are afraid of being soft and hard. They should have a good talk with their children, reason with them and influence them with actions. If it is arbitrary, it will have the opposite effect.