1. Develop self-control ability. Proper calm guidance can help children develop good self-control habits and cultivate their ability to face things rationally.

2. Promote the ability to solve problems. In the process of proper cold treatment, parents can guide their children to think about the essence and root causes of problems, and promote their children to gradually learn the ability to discover, analyze and solve problems.

3. Improve the awareness of self-reflection and improvement. In the process of cold treatment, parents can point out their children's shortcomings, let them realize their mistakes and shortcomings, and thus stimulate their children to think about the direction and ways of improvement.

4. Enhance self-confidence and independence. Proper cold treatment will not make children feel dominated and controlled by their parents, let them create their own space and enhance their self-confidence and independent spirit.

In a word, proper cold education can enhance children's self-control, problem-solving ability, reflection and improvement ability, self-affirmation ability and promote their growth and development without hurting their self-esteem.