Many parents don't let their children watch TV, thinking that watching too much is bad for their children's eyes, but few parents can control their children to play with tablets, notebooks, desktops and smart phones. Many parents also think that exposing their children to high technology from an early age can cultivate their children's learning ability, but this often leads to bad eye habits and visual fatigue, and finally the damage to their eyes even far exceeds that of TV.
1, cultivate children's self-discipline ability
A dignified parent will put down his mobile phone as soon as he says it, but a child will turn a deaf ear after saying it many times. This has something to do with self-discipline education. Cultivating children's self-discipline and self-awareness from an early age has a lot to do with whether parents set an example. A self-disciplined child will know how long to play, and sometimes his parents will stop without telling him.
2, mobile phone computer lock screen
People's self-discipline will change because of the environment, so in this case, parents may wish to create a good environment, the mobile phone computer can lock the screen, or the mobile phone computer can encrypt or change the network password. Although it will be more troublesome, when children get used to playing, they will naturally transfer their interest to other places. This method is more suitable for children who don't know much about mobile phones and computers, and it is no longer applicable when children grow up.
3. Take the children out to play
Taking children out to play more is one of the good ways to stop playing mobile phones and computers. When you have time, play with other things, see new things and learn about the outside world, so that children's vision will not be narrowly focused on mobile phones and computers.
4. Talk to your children more.
Chat with children more often at ordinary times to understand their joys and sorrows. Some children prefer to play mobile phones and computers because of their parents' indifference, hoping to get happiness in this way. If parents often chat with their children on an equal footing, they will find many details that they have never noticed.
5. Pay attention to setting an example.
Most children learn from their parents. If parents are addicted to mobile phones and computers, then children can easily follow suit and become addicted to mobile phones and computers. It is impossible to solve the problem by coercion if you want your child to quit computers and mobile phones. The lock screen will always be broken by children, and mandatory orders will hurt the feelings of parents and children in the long run, so the best way is for parents to set an example. If you can't be self-disciplined, how can you ask your children to be self-disciplined?
Can primary school students use mobile phones? The information age is inevitable. When people generally use mobile phones, the children around them will also be affected. Nowadays, many children can use mobile phones from childhood, but will they use mobile phones in primary school? Will mobile phones become a disadvantage? How should parents and children choose?
1, information age
With the proliferation of mobile phones, computers and the Internet, adults are inevitably affected. For children with stronger learning and acceptance ability, they learn to use mobile phones very early in the process of growing up. Children are naturally fond of playing, and there are many applications on mobile phones, which will inevitably lead children to develop the bad habit of always playing mobile phones. Adults should set an example, play mobile phones less and teach children how to use them correctly.
2. Safety considerations
Many parents give their children mobile phones for safety reasons, hoping that their children can strengthen their contact with themselves. However, it is not a good thing for parents to buy adult mobile phones directly for their children in the future, which not only increases the risk of children being robbed, but also easily leads to children's dependence and obsession with mobile phones. If you contact, you'd better use a child's mobile phone instead of a smart phone.
3. Acceptability
Children are too capable of receiving information. Many adults don't realize that children can learn more knowledge every day when they grow up. Not only can you make phone calls, but many children will also find that it can be used for reading books, watching cartoons, playing games, shopping and so on. It is good to learn new knowledge, but children will also learn some bad information from the Internet. When adults don't teach children how to use mobile phones correctly, it's best not to equip them with mobile phones or mobile phones specially for children.
4. What are the disadvantages?
In fact, the biggest problem of primary school mobile phones is health. Children's concentration is actually stronger than that of adults. Sometimes staring at the mobile phone for a long time and looking down at the screen for a long time will cause problems in the child's cervical spine and excessive eye fatigue, especially when taking a car or walking outdoors to play with the mobile phone. Moreover, some children play mobile phones in the dark at night, which is more hidden than computers, and playing at night is very harmful to their eyes.
Ways to prevent children from playing with mobile phones 1. Divert your attention. Children cry and play mobile games. Parents can find their favorite toys to attract their attention. Don't be soft-hearted and satisfy their children just because they cry.
When a child wants to play with his mobile phone, he can take him outside to play. However, don't take out his mobile phone, but use the games he is interested in to divert his attention. Or take the children to the park to play with other children.
2. Make rules for children to play mobile phones. If the child can't live without the mobile phone for a while, he can slowly reduce the time he plays with the mobile phone first. At the same time, parents should make rules for their children to play mobile phones, such as playing for 5 minutes or 10 minutes at a time. If the child follows it, praise it. If the child doesn't obey, don't beat and scold, just take the phone away from the child, or punish it appropriately.
Parents should stick to principles. After making rules for children, parents should first abide by the rules, that is, children should stick to the principles when they cry again. If parents compromise because their children cry and let them play mobile phones, then children will use crying as a weapon against their parents.
Parents should set a good example. Many children love to play with mobile phones, which has a lot to do with their parents. Therefore, parents must pay attention to their behavior whether they want their children to play mobile phones for a long time or not. Some parents take the initiative to take out their mobile phones in order to coax their children to play, which is a wrong practice.
5. Use the power of peers: pay attention to children's friends, encourage children to communicate face to face with friends, and use less SMS and QQ. When face-to-face communication can meet children's psychological needs, mobile phones are not so important.
6. Cultivate interest: The more boring and empty you are, the greater your dependence on mobile phones. As long as you have an active and healthy hobby and devote your time and attention to it, you will get fun and a sense of accomplishment from it, and the demand for mobile phones will be greatly reduced. As parents, it is the responsibility to help children discover and cultivate all kinds of positive and healthy hobbies, especially to encourage children to participate in some group activities that can interact with their peers. This is the most fundamental and effective method.