2. Correctly treat children's academic performance. A sense of accomplishment is one of the important factors that affect students' self-esteem. If students often experience success, their self-esteem will be improved; On the contrary, if he often fails, his self-esteem will decrease. As a student, this kind of success or failure experience mainly comes from academic performance. However, for every student, not all students have good academic performance and high test scores, so they will definitely experience success. Whether there is a sense of accomplishment depends on students' attitude towards exam results. Therefore, parents should tell their children that as long as they concentrate on class, study hard and do well in the exam, no matter how many points they get in the final exam, they should be satisfied as long as they make progress than before.
3. Save some face for the children. Parents should not beat or reprimand their children in front of others, nor should they nag their children about what they have said or done in front of others, making them feel embarrassed.
4. Make friends with children. Actively participate in children's hobbies, buy children some books they like, arrange them to go to summer camps or join clubs, and try to make their lives colorful and meaningful.
5. Care and caress children. Give them more smiles and be more interested in what they do. Praise and encourage their efforts and success, even if they are insignificant. They should be allowed to make mistakes when they study or practice. They may not do well at first, but don't blame them. Ask them by adult standards. When they say "I can't do it" or "I can't do it", encourage them to try again. Never give up halfway to save time or lack patience. Otherwise, once they form the bad habit of giving up everything halfway, they will never feel a sense of accomplishment and their self-esteem will gradually decrease.
6. Make children feel happy. Provide them with time, places and toys for games, and encourage and support their hobbies. Although the leading activity of children after entering school is learning, games are still an indispensable and important aspect of their lives. Some parents have a misconception that games will waste time and delay their children's study. There's an old saying in China called "playing with things and getting tired", but it's not. Because games can not only bring happiness to children, but also make them strengthen their physique, increase their knowledge and improve their self-esteem in happiness.