For parents, pay attention to family education. I sincerely teach my son to improve my family. Good teaching, good education. Sincerely, the family is good.
First, parents should attach importance to family education.
Raising children is not meddling. Or corruption, regarded as a scourge, humiliating ancestors and descendants; Or vulgar, useless, empty worry, parents worry; Or become a talent, use it as a responsibility, benefit future generations and benefit the country. Father and mother are lifelong teachers. Such as lighthouse and navigation direction; Like a ladder, what the heart wants. If you have a family to teach, you are lucky. Teach well, educate well, follow well, and cut less. Early education, don't hesitate, be a child, have a good life, mom and dad, remember. If you are lucky, disaster will follow. You will miss your children, hurt yourself, your family and your country.
Being a parent, teaching children all one's life, seeking money all one's life and making contributions all one's life are nothing more than that. Children and grandchildren become rich and useless; Children and grandchildren are defeated, and wealth is useless. Otherwise, pursue fame and fortune, be busy with everything, seek gold and silver, leave children behind, neglect raising, neglect raising. Regret against one's will Vertical Jinshan, or Yinshan, ruined the home, lost people's money, and suffered a lot. Is it filial piety?
Educate children and correct yourself first. Kind-hearted and upright. If you are right, you will succeed. Raising children and providing for the elderly; A child suffers from a small life. If you don't seek goodness and don't want to be rigid, you will gain wisdom privately and teaching will be ineffective. Don't be arrogant, be cruel; If you don't let go, you must be strict. For a moment, it ruined your life; It hurts for a while, but it hurts for a lifetime. Diligence, preciseness, self-reliance and the essence of teaching.
Second, I want to teach my son and promote my family.
A person's life is three years old. From prenatal education to preschool education, lay the foundation and decide for life. Gu Tairen, the King of Huaiwen, keeps his eyes away from evil and his ears away from lewdness. He is arrogant, limping, laughing, and angry. He laid the foundation for the Zhou Dynasty for 800 years. In the past, Meng Mu was pregnant with Mencius, so she had to sit up straight and eat properly. Children's education, disciple education, parent-child harmony and family prosperity; Etiquette week, neighborhood harmony; Respect teachers, work hard, be happy and wise, and grow up; Respect elders, be modest, increase wealth and make contributions. Be an adult and be ambitious. Vertical and horizontal planning and strategy; Defend the country and study military affairs. Serving our country and honoring our ancestors is the blessing of our family and our loved ones.
It is cruel to want to be filial. Talk about ethics, talk about young and old. Respect the elders first, then be young. Love can be said, reason should be straight. Don't reverse, don't waste. If you want wisdom, don't be afraid. No wrestling, no progress. The requirements are too high, and the children are obscene. Many warnings will make children timid. Too much interference, no concentration. Negative, not confident. Too much criticism numbs the heart. If you accommodate more, you will be more feminine. Permissibility nourishes laziness; Enjoy and accept it, destroy your ambition; Satire and resentment, loss of self-esteem; Arrogant and selfish; Hatred and hatred ruined the future. The child is still young, but his heart is blind; If you are not wise, don't take it for granted. Only scores, only diplomas, holding waste, not desirable. Where there is success, encourage, increase confidence and cultivate interest; When encountering mistakes, be encouraged, don't shrink back, and gain wisdom; If I lose points, don't care, release my mind and benefit the future. Sincerity, patience, etc. Children and grandchildren are full and families are prosperous.
Third, teach well and educate well
The way to teach is to correct yourself. Work hard and set goals; Abstain from drinking and purify the soul; Command mahjong and inspire learning; Commandment impetuous, stator meaning; Leading the market, with a long atmosphere; Expect less and be content; Follow nature, and the child is good. If you can, don't refuse; If you can't, don't force it. Retreat and strive for progress, determined to win. Learn culture and acquire knowledge; Work often and increase your knowledge. Housework, invited to participate, want to be diligent, reluctant. Washing dishes, sweeping the floor, not suffering, not wasting time, increasing self-esteem, increasing confidence, practicing heart and benefiting growth. Learn to play, don't neglect; Be strict and cautious, be tolerant and believe. Ask less, don't blame; Willing to let go, Zi Fangxian.
The key to teaching is to be the first tree person. If there are no trees, it is difficult to go out. Filial piety is the foundation, determined by ambition; Shun pro-will, comfortable; Based on the world, make contributions to the people; Yang Zuyi, a descendant of Yin. As a student, I am grateful to my teacher. The teacher cares for me, and Jiao Mo is stubborn, diligent and disappointing; Teachers reprimanded me, don't slack off, be serious and be diligent in introspection; Study and study, this job is none of others' business, so don't give up. If the ambition is not established, like duckweed, the roots are not solid, drifting with the wind and drifting away. Uncertain mind, unspecific ambition, difficult to do, incorrect ambition, difficult to do; If you are strong, it is difficult to get what you want. If you start all over again in the end, you may not succeed. Zhou Enlai, be ambitious. For the sake of China, study hard, be tolerant of others, be strict with yourself, do one's best, and be a model and be Fan Shigong when you die. Mao Zedong, be determined to be macro. Saving the suffering, building China, enriching the people and strengthening the country, benefiting the world, has made great contributions to the future and is famous in history. Poor Huai Su, a banana leaf, a pen in the grave, is praised. Humble, enslaved, hanging horns, and finally becoming a phase. At the beginning of Su Qin, abandoned by Qin, he studied hard and eventually became the leader of the six countries. When Sun Bin went out, he was hurt by his friends, punished by corruption, and determined not to waste his ambition. Pang Juan was a saint of the art of war. If you want to become a talent, you must be determined, outline and broaden your horizons. Difficulties and frustrations. Perseverance makes everything possible. Uneasy heart, restless nature, stupid behavior, only empty; Stubbornly opinionated, shielding wisdom, self-centered, lovelorn. In the past, Wang Jie was immoral, torturing and killing innocent people, hurting disciplinarians and acting arbitrarily. Although the country was vast, it fell in an instant. Chiang Kai-shek, selfish, self-centered, abused military power, although powerful, but self-defeating, contending, eccentric, bad behavior, and getting into trouble. The place where the world is built is your heart. Bad heart, embarrassment, bad heart and bad life. Shang Zhouwang, who loves pleasure, swims in wine pools, fragrant meat and forests, ruining the country and falling into the national program. Although he was the king, he was in trouble and hid. Selflessness, greed, purity and wisdom. I used to be a fan of the public, worrying about the people, forgetting selfishness, contributing to history and regretting the world. Han Chongchong, go to the lower city. Tang Xianzu studied since childhood. Aim for the people, bow for the body, although long, do not forget each other.
Education is really important. There are rules. Strict at first, gradually relaxed; When you are young, let go. Praise children and attach importance to facts; Not exaggerated, not welcome; Don't brag, don't brag. Be careful about rewards and punishments. Do your duty, Cuomo Award; Foreign affairs, for the award. Rewards are more important than money. Therefore, mistakes will not be punished; If you can't do it, you will be punished. Goodwill is excusable; If you are evil, you should be punished. Punish the police, learn from the past, don't delay, and don't be responsible in the future. Filial piety in ancient times, there were many sages, and the image of law was the real purpose. Meng Mu, for example, broke the loom. The loom is not a tool, but actually a plan. Although he is very young, he has a heavy heart and his life is in danger. He is afraid to learn. The child asked, not blindly following. Give, don't refuse, stop, don't go with the flow; Behind the reason, it is natural to resolutely refuse and cry. If you can't bear it, it will often hurt your child; Not cruel, many mistakes. Trust is the most important thing in children's affairs. Don't be anxious or suspicious. Will do things, lose wisdom. Solve children's doubts, don't laugh, dig, doubt and be stupid; If you have, be considerate, don't go around, don't expose the old; Blame the good, make it tolerable, punish it with precepts, and do good deeds. Teach children and be kind to teachers. Responsibility and punishment, don't avoid mistakes; After being taught by the teacher, I will definitely change; Honing and honing contribute to growth; Only when you are grateful to your teacher can you be efficient.
Fourth, a sincere heart and a good home.
Meng Mu is very virtuous and educated Mencius. Shun's father became violent and became Shun Di. Things are different, but feelings are the same. Good or bad depends on the mood. If you feel bad, you will suffer. Uneven heart, everything goes wrong; If you don't complain, resentment is sparse; Don't blame, blame is revenge. You are comfortable when you feel good. People have had it, take it as a warning, don't sell yourself short, sinners are at fault; Don't give up on yourself and live for others.
The essence of the heart is like a compass. With a direction, you can sail far. Success or failure comes first. Peace of mind, firm will: restless, hard to decide, drift with the flow, and ultimately accomplish nothing. Light property, abstain from greed: greed is strong, people lack rigidity, and often complain, leading to disharmony. Treat people: chronic high, heartbreak, contempt, loneliness. Compassion, pure heart: lack of compassion, cruel heart, harmful to all beings, harmful to future generations. Good intentions benefit people: bad intentions and misconduct begin with interests and end with self-loss. Indifferent to fame and fortune, calm spirit: being distracted, confused, busy and blind, everything is dangerous. Pay attention to dedication and cultivate public interests: covet self-interest, hide people's eyes and ears, be smart, and harm others. Seeking justice and benefiting all beings: selfish, narrow-minded, rebellious and dangerous. If you are empty, you are not ashamed to ask: if you lose humility, your heart will always be proud and you will be insulted by yourself. Listen attentively, clear the way: think yes, assert, be stubborn and ruin your future. Small things succeed, long self-confidence: lack of self-confidence, often sad, useless, ashamed of our ancestors. After setbacks, shape adversity quotient: everything goes smoothly, without perseverance, without setbacks, in case of adversity. Dare to let go and temper your courage: if you lose your courage, you will be more timid, have difficulty grasping the opportunity and fall behind. When things are not done, stick to it: no tenacity, impetuous, quick success and quick success are easy to make mistakes, and many things are wrong. Be cautious in planning, be cautious in doing things: do whatever you want, do things rashly, be in a hurry, and disaster lurks. Luck is the most harmful: taking risks, taking risks, not keeping secrets, and finally suffering. Speculators are good at making profits: they are thieves, uncertain, smart and embarrassed. If you want to be a tool, you should be carved: sincerity, patience, kindness, wisdom and a strong heart. If you can't persist, you won't be depressed; Victory is not arrogant, setbacks are not impetuous; Weak but not humble, strong but not prosperous; Rich or not, poor or not. Intellectual man fit, conscience heavy. Don't care if you don't like it; Don't be stingy with your money, be a good person. Open your heart and clear your mind to think about other things besides modesty. Can help others, not selfish; Help me, thank you respectfully. Don't say long, don't say short. Teach children to lead an honest and clean life: don't lead an honest and clean life; Far villain, near gentleman; Learn with an open mind and be diligent in thinking; Distinguish between authenticity and introspection; Be good at practice and persevere.
I am determined and determined to seek. The world is vast, and you can gallop. Practice step by step, advance day by day, step by step, and reach a thousand miles; Bless the people, contribute to the future, make the world peaceful and make the family prosperous.