Baoyu, 12 years old, had a dream in a lazy afternoon. This is a boy's dream for a man. In this dream, a teenager completes the sexual evolution.
Before that, he had a pure love and a pure lover in his heart, but this afternoon, his body lost control of his soul and had an intimate relationship with a stunner in his dream.
This stunner is someone he knows well, a mature and sexy woman-Qin Keqing.
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This afternoon, he was very sleepy because he was full of food and drink. Under the guidance of Qin, he entered a dream, where he had sex with Qin and had his first wet dream. Since then, he has changed from a boy to a man.
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When Qin led Baoyu to his bedroom, he also said that he was still a child. Children are not without sexual orientation and fantasies. Baoyu, 12 years old, taught us a lesson with a dream and a sexual behavior with an attacker after waking up-a child of 12 years old can have both sexual consciousness and sexual behavior.
It was an era without Internet and AV. It was an era without Cang teachers. Although there are some literary works related to pornography, Baoyu hasn't had time to read them. But Baoyu started his sexual journey at the age of 12. Why?
There is only one answer: sex is the instinct of animals, including humans.
According to Freud's theory, people's sexual desire has existed since infancy, but it is mainly manifested as "self-enjoyment", that is, seeking satisfaction from themselves. Since adolescence, I have been looking for external objects.
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Why did Baoyu have such a dream?
According to Freud's interpretation of dreams, "dreams are the realization of wishes." And "one of the sources of dreams is a few meaningful facts that happened recently, which are condensed into a whole in the dream."
At this time, Baoyu's wish is to release hormones in his body, and the source of dreams is exactly what he saw from Ke Qing: Qin Keqing's mature body, the fragrance of dreams in the room, Tang Bohu's "Begonia Sleeping in Spring" and Qin Guan's "Yanyin" couplets, all of which Baoyu likes, and they are condensed into a sexual dream.
However, for the effect of the novel, on the basis of these dreams, the author added the content of warning fantasy to draw out the judgment and reflect the warning function to Baoyu.
Taking this sexual dream out alone, we will find that it is too suitable as a textbook for adolescent sex education-this is a compulsory course for every boy.
Children who are eleven or twelve years old are often ignored by their parents and teachers in their sexual germination, thus losing the opportunity to guide them correctly.
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Because of this sexual dream, it was judged that Baoyu had an affair with Qin Keqing, which really wronged Baoyu and defiled Qin Keqing. It's just a coincidence that all this happens-every adolescent boy and girl will find the prototype they yearn for in life and complete menarche in their dreams.
"Young people's first love is often a mature woman, and a girl will unconsciously fall in love with a powerful old man. (Freud's sexology and love psychology) "
However, one thing can be concluded: in the author's time, psychology is still an unknown field, and there is only one possibility to describe a dream so reasonably-it is really the author's personal experience.
This intercourse with Qin in a dream became an inhuman secret in Baoyu's heart, and Qin also had a special position in his heart.
So Baoyu listened to Qin's good news, "I was stabbed in the heart, and wow, my mouth was full of blood."
Some people question this: Baoyu and Daiyu are so in love, how can they be like this with other women in their dreams? Why didn't Daiyu appear in her dream?
what do you think?