First, don't bicker with children. First of all, if you show weakness in front of children, the most important thing is not to quarrel with children often in daily life. In fact, quarreling with him is a very bad mood. In the process of quarreling, we are also very angry, and the child's emotions are difficult to control. So this time can be said to be tense. I think this kind of mood is not particularly good for the relationship between two people, whether at home or with friends.
Second, promise your child appropriately, so occasionally show weakness in front of the child. When quarreling, don't say that you must win the child, and occasionally let the child win. In fact, it can also safeguard the child's self-esteem. Moreover, in normal times, when the child asks his parents for something, we should not always veto it with one vote. Parents can think about whether their children's requirements are reasonable and useful. When parents veto with one vote, they often find that what the child said is really useful at some point in the future, and what she wants to do is also very good. Therefore, when a child makes any request, parents can think carefully before answering, instead of always thinking that they are right.
Third, agree with the child's point of view. In the process of discussing some problems with children, you can agree with your child's point of view. As we all know, in a family, parents and children may always have different views, so many parents will defend their views and refute their children's ideas at this time. But in fact, children's ideas are not necessarily wrong, or they are all useless. Sometimes when children look at problems, they can think in a direction that parents can't see. Therefore, at these times, appropriate weakness means agreeing with the child's point of view. Some parents actually know that their children's ideas are correct or useful, but they just feel that they can't suffer as parents, so they will refute their children's views.