Now, some children are "little emperors" and "little princesses" at home, and they live a life of "clothes to reach out and rice to open their mouths" every day. But have those parents ever thought about their children's future? I now say to my parents on behalf of those spoiled children: "We don't want to be flowers in the greenhouse!" " "
Those children are at home and their parents won't let them do anything. They do everything for them, but if they eat well and dress well, they will be turned upside down if they don't meet their wishes, and everything will be "self-centered" My parents are too old to do anything in the future. So what should they do? They may not be able to find a job because of their lack of practical ability, self-determination and sense of responsibility ... can they still rely on their parents at that time? No, you have to rely on yourself!
At home, those children are "afraid to put it in their mouths and hold it in their hands". Because I spoil my children too much, I can't bear any pressure. If they face great changes, they will be helpless. There is news that a middle school student strangled his crazy mother with a wire after his father died in a car accident because of his parents' doting, and then committed suicide by jumping off a building ... Do parents who overindulge their children also want their children to be the second him?
Some parents are very strict with their children. Cultivate their self-reliance ability from an early age, let them have a strong heart, insist on doing their own things, let them know their parents' hard work and have a grateful heart ... Even if they don't get ahead, they will become parents' pride, because they will walk on their own life path step by step. ...
Dear parents, let go, we have grown up! We don't want to be flowers in the greenhouse, we want to be eagles fighting the sky!
I don't want to be a flower in the greenhouse. This cartoon in front of me makes me feel a lot. The picture shows the scorching sun. A father and son hurried along the road. The father holds a sunshade in his right hand, a paint box in his left hand and a huge drawing board on his back. He is sweating from the heat. But my son is leisurely walking in the shadow of an umbrella. ...
Some people may ask, "Isn't it just a cartoon? What's the fuss! " But I will solemnly say, "Although this is just a cartoon, isn't this what happens around us every day?"
Yes, in the heart of every parent in the world, children will always be "the apple of their eye". I'm really scared in my mouth and scared in my hand. They care about their children's food and clothing, and worry about their illness and injury. If there is any problem, they will be on the edge of the enemy.
I once heard a story: Xiaojun is an only child. He not only disobeyed, but also made his parents, grandparents listen to him. Get up in the morning and shout, "grandma, wash my face!" " "When eating, he cried," Grandpa, give me a big meal! ""Just in the middle of eating, he shouted, "Mom, give me meat!" "When he got to school, he called out again," Dad! Take me to school! "There will be mom and dad, grandparents also listen to him. There was no one in the school, and I used to be one of them, but I found the mistake, took off my exquisite coat and put on the masculinity of boys.
As the saying goes, if the nest is not filled, it will burst. Let's not be flowers in the greenhouse, take every step of life, get out of the greenhouse and fly to higher skies.
I read a story in Yangzi Evening News today: A child who lost his father strangled his mentally ill mother with ropes and wires. This shocking news made me ask: How could I strangle my mother?
I thought about it, why did the child do this? Is it very? Don't! It is the child's weak endurance. What is the reason? I think it depends on the love of parents. There is nothing wrong with parents' love, but spoiling it is all wet. As the saying goes, "No tree can grow in a flowerpot." And this child, he is an only child, and his parents spoil him too much. His parents run around him every day, afraid to melt in his mouth, afraid to hold it in his hand, and don't worry about where to put it. Over time, the boy developed the habit of relying on his parents. When his father died, there was no pillar in his family, leaving him a minor and his mother suffering from mental illness all the year round. In order not to let his mother become his burden, he did not hesitate to strangle his own mother in his own hands with his own flesh and blood. The doting of his parents made him a weak flower in the greenhouse, and he couldn't stand any wind and rain or any hardships. We are used to living at home. If we ask you, "If you have no parents, will you be happy?" That's not necessarily true, so we'd rather be small trees on the roadside than flowers in the greenhouse. We should face up to difficulties, be grateful at the same time, and learn to be a responsible person!
Don't be a flower in the greenhouse. There are many beautiful flowers in the greenhouse. One day, the greenhouse suddenly went out of power and the flowers withered.
This is an interesting story. Although flowers bloom beautifully in the greenhouse, it also sets an unchangeable fact that flowers are always dependent on the greenhouse.
It is more appropriate to use "flowers in the greenhouse" as a metaphor for children who rely too much on their parents. These children will always be chickens under the wings of hens. They have not experienced wind and rain and have no ability to resist wind and rain. Once they have no place to live, they will be in a hurry and can't take care of themselves.
There is a true story: a beautiful and rare bird actually starved to death in a fruitful forest. Later, the investigation found that the owner of the bird took good care of it and then released it, because the bird had been spoiled and lost its predation ability, and the food was readily available but he didn't know how to take it away, so he starved to death.
Those children who are spoiled by their parents are useless when they leave the greenhouse. Those successful people don't rely too much on their parents, which gives us a profound revelation:
Children should not rely too much on their parents, but should learn to stand on their own feet. Parents should not spoil their children, but let them learn to be independent!
I am also an illegitimate child, but I am not a flower in the greenhouse. Some parents put it in their mouths, but they are afraid that it will be lost in their hands, and they are not at ease where to put it. Over time, I formed the habit of relying on my parents.
Therefore, we would rather be small trees on the roadside than flowers in the greenhouse. We should face up to difficulties, be grateful and learn to be a responsible person.
According to the report, compared with Japanese children, China children are weak in will and viability, and lack the spirit of self-reliance, self-improvement and hard struggle. This exposes the weakness of our education.
Now most children are only children, and they are "little emperors" and "little princesses" at home. Parents not only want their children to succeed, but also spoil and spoil their children, which makes some students lazy, cowardly and selfish. Poor independence, can not stand setbacks, lack of courage and perseverance to overcome difficulties. This situation is very worrying.
Children are the flowers of the motherland, and the hope of the future will face the challenge of fierce international competition and shoulder the heavy responsibility of a strong backbone, so we should form a good habit of being hard-working and unpretentious from an early age.
Hardworking and plain living are the fine traditions of the Chinese nation. Hard work means hard work and perseverance in learning; Diligent and simple in life, hard-working and complaining; Be determined and make progress. To this end, students should seriously study the modern history of China, trace back to the history of our Party's hard struggle, explore the secret of career success, understand the true meaning of hard struggle, form a good habit of hard struggle and frugality, and become qualified cross-century builders and successors.
Students, this requires us to start from small things, from me, and from now on, to achieve "three noes", "three advocates" and "five thrift", that is, not to eat more, not to wear more, and not to make more ostentation and extravagance; Advocate scientific diet, dress neatly and study hard; Save a drop of water, a kilowatt hour, a penny, a piece of paper and a grain of rice. Therefore, in daily life, students should learn to help their parents do housework, actively participate in social services, public welfare labor and other activities, be strict with themselves, work hard in constant practice, form brave and determined psychological quality through setbacks and hardships, and understand the value of unity, cooperation, friendship and mutual assistance.
Students, the eagle's wings are honed in the fighting storm, and the tall and straight pines and cypresses grow in the snow. May everyone be brave to be an eagle flying in the blue sky, not a sparrow eager for comfort; It has become a weak flower in the greenhouse, and can't stand any wind and rain, and can't stand any hardships.
Pine and cypress on the top of the mountain, not greenhouse flowers!
I don't want to be a flower in the greenhouse. Ordinary parents always say that I am a fifth grader. I want to learn to cook and enhance my self-care ability when I am away from home. I can't be a princess all day. Whenever I hear these words, I am always unconvinced. Which one doesn't count? I often go home from school alone. But what happened today makes me have to admit that I haven't grown up yet, and there are still many aspects to learn.
This morning, my father was going on a business trip and my mother was ill in hospital. My parents wanted to give me five yuan (at that time, I mistakenly thought it was two and a half yuan) and told me to buy my own breakfast and go to math practice class. I thought, "This is easy to handle, watch me!" "I went to a breakfast shop and saw the steamed dumplings bulging, so I ordered six in one bite and stuffed the dragged money into the store. But when I got the change, I only had fifty cents! This puzzled me, so I asked, "isn't a steamed dumpling eighty cents?" Another five dollars? " "No, only five yuan. "The wife of shop-owner also specially opened it for me. There is really only one five dollars. " It must have been in your pocket. "No, I will check it carefully." As he spoke, he took off his gloves, only to find that with a bang, all the steamed dumplings he got fell to the ground and fell dirty. I was really angry and annoyed. I was so angry that I dialed the familiar number and said that the owner of the breakfast shop had hacked five dollars and couldn't eat early. Mother said, "Don't worry, it shows that you need to exercise your self-care ability more in the future." You can't cry because of this. Just have breakfast. Mom will make up for it when she comes back. In addition, I blame myself for not looking at the money carefully and not giving it to the boss. Besides, mom did give you five dollars. " "ah! You didn't say it earlier, I thought it was 10 yuan. " I'm really glad that I didn't give more money to others, and I'm angry that I went to class hungry. However, today's events confirmed what I said in "Mahogany", and I want to take off the hat of "flower of greenhouse" in the shortest time.