In the long run, doting on children will actually cause many problems. Often many parents can't see their children when they grow up, maybe to a certain extent, and then parents don't realize their problems. Therefore, when children grow into teenagers or adults, they will see many problems, which are caused by early education.
First of all, spoiled children are generally selfish, because many opportunities to deal with things are solved by their parents in doting, and then children will compare themselves in some things, and then they will not consider some responsibilities and feelings of others, so they are very self-centered in these things.
Children who have been spoiled for a long time should not be obedient. The more parents pay attention to their children, the sooner the rebellious period will come. Why do poor children have to take charge early? Because they only cherish the hard-won life when they have experienced difficulties, many rich children will look down on their elders, which will seriously affect their lives, whether it is tempering or hardship. In the face of children's love, whether it is hugging or asking for care, we should try our best to love. How to find a balance between loving mothers and not doting on children is a topic that mothers need to practice permanently. I hope my answer can help you. Let's make progress and practice together.