Every parent is always under pressure when educating their children. There are many sources of stress, including external ones, such as children's pranks or grades; There are also internal ones, such as parents' educational ideas and methods. So how can we educate our children under such pressure?

What kind of person a child becomes depends, to some extent, on his parents first. But unfortunately, parents may not be aware of this, let alone the correct educational concept. When it comes to tutoring, it becomes paying teachers to teach culture classes, rather than parents doing it themselves.

On the road of children's growth, family education cannot be absent, and parents and children don't have to be "you win and I lose". It is not terrible that children have shortcomings. What is terrible is that parents, as the leaders of their children's lives, lack correct parenting concepts and methods. Parents are their children's life mentors, and their education methods, words and deeds will also affect their children's growth. It is the best gift for parents to raise, raise and teach their children well.

In family education, the most basic method is word-of-mouth, and tell the children what we know by language, so that they can learn something from it.

In the process of growing up, children absorb the knowledge from the outside world quickly, but the knowledge from the outside world is messy. In order to avoid bad influence on children, we need to tell them stories in peacetime. However, some parents have some misunderstandings about word of mouth, and think that forcing children to do what they think is right is word of mouth. But coercion often backfires.

The most important thing is to learn to respect and communicate. Don't treat your child as a child, but as an equal individual, give mutual equality and respect. If you respect your child, your child will follow your example and respect you. Equality is the basis of communication.

Only when parents and children are in an equal position can they communicate effectively with their children. Parents can get along with their children like friends and talk about everything like friends. Let children learn to respect each other in communication and listen to each other's ideas in sincere conversation, so as to better understand each other's behavior, learn to understand and tolerate, and cultivate the character of gratitude.