Then, another problem we want to talk about is that if parents have wrong ideas, it will attract children's disgust. When we were young, we should all have experienced such a thing, that is, our parents compared us with other people's children. In fact, this comparison is wrong, what's wrong! Because our parents regard us as their face words. If I do well in the exam, my parents can let friends and relatives know. If I don't do well in the exam, my parents won't even have the courage to jump the queue. Is this normal? I am obviously not normal.
So in the final analysis, there are two conflicts between parents and children. The first point is that children and parents have different ideas, and children's three views are slowly forming. Second, parents put too much pressure on their children and always compare their children with other people's children. On the other hand, if children compare you with adults in other families, what will parents think and they will definitely be charged with treason. So even if you can't do it, why do you have to let your children do everything well! To put it bluntly, some families have been poor for a long time and have been rich for half their lives, pointing to their children and showing off their pride! Why? Your waist must be supported by your children.
In fact, parents' education of their children can be said to be selfless or selfish. Many parents regard their children as an investment. After investing efforts and time in children, parents will scold their mothers if they fail to meet the desired standards. Is this right? Personally, I think the most wrong place is that parents always want their children to follow their own ideas, just like online jokes? Adults are not picky about food because they buy all the dishes they like? It is also very reasonable.