In fact, personally, the support is poor? It doesn't mean not giving money to children, nor does it mean deliberately creating an atmosphere of poverty. It means don't let him achieve his goal easily. For example, if a child wants to buy snacks, snacks are dispensable for adults. If a child wants to eat, there is no need to stop him, but it is hard for him to understand that a cup of tea and a meal are hard to come by, so a better way is to set a goal for him, such as what to do at home today or what to achieve at school before eating. If the child is in trouble, let him solve it himself. Parents can't come and help him clean up when he is crying, so that he can learn to think and deal with problems by himself, learn to be independent and take responsibility.
Fuyang? I don't mean to let her eat and wear warm clothes, but to broaden her horizons, educate her knowledge and let her contact with the outside world as much as possible. Clothes, watches, cars and other brands can be dispensed with, but I can't understand and ask three questions. Now that the network is so developed, it is not difficult to understand. You don't have to be proficient in poetry, music, chess, calligraphy and painting, and sports events, but at least you have to know the rules or have the ability to taste. You may not be an expert in front of others, but you are not a layman. In addition to knowledge, we should also teach her the skills of dealing with people and the style of being strict with oneself and lenient with others.
A person's inner cultivation can affect a person's appearance and fate, which is closely related to his childhood teaching. It is true that most of us have an average standard of living, and we don't have enough capital to give our children a bright and smooth road to a bright future, but at least we should teach them the skills to get through rough times, pave the way for them and let them forge their own future.
As experienced people, parents can't say that their ways must be correct, at least they know what is wrong. The problem of survival is taught by parents, and the way of life is explored by children themselves.