In a family, it is often the woman who is in charge and the man who is in charge. Therefore, in educating children, the image presented by the mother is constant nagging, which fully reflects the father's love like a mountain and maternal love like water. It can also be seen that the mother always has to pay more than the father in educating children. However, on the issue of educating children, fathers and mothers should care about children equally, and mothers should not be allowed to take on the role of nagging mothers because of the conventions of traditional culture. Besides, what I want to say is that this is not a good way to educate children. If the mother stays with her children all the time, their egos will be entangled for a long time, which will not only affect the children to form their own unique ego, but also affect the mother's ego and make her feel physically and mentally exhausted.

It is necessary to realize that parents' affection for their children is strengthened through daily parenting behavior, and parents who often take care of their children can generally have deep feelings with their children. Therefore, from the moment the child is born, the mother should let the father take care of the child, which can not only enhance the affection between the father and the child, but also make them more confident and willing to participate in parenting with the child's mother, so that as a mother, you can have your own time instead of focusing on the child.

In fact, many mothers want their children's fathers to participate in parenting, and every father doesn't want to be an outsider in the family, but why are there still many fathers who don't participate?

? I think apart from work, mother's nagging and accusations are the main reasons why men are afraid to participate in raising children.

No one is born with children. Women are pregnant in October, and naturally they are better at raising children than men. However, these are just congenital differences. If you don't give a man a chance, he will always be a man who can't even change diapers. Of course, a man's parenting style will be very extensive, which makes many mothers very uneasy, but no father will be stupid enough to hurt his children. If you give him a chance, he will adjust his position and state with the child. As long as parents and children are well, it really doesn't matter how to dress their children and how to hold them. As long as the relationship between husband and wife is good, it doesn't matter whether he is rude to the children or scolds them.

Because in a family, for children, a relaxed and happy father, a sweet and happy mother and a pair of loving parents will be more meaningful than any education.