A story about teaching children to be polite? Chengmen Sydney? This story tells the story of Shi Yang and You Zuo, scholars in the Song Dynasty, asking for advice from Cheng Yi and Cheng Hao.
Cheng, a native of Yichuan, Luoyang, was a famous Neo-Confucianism in the Song Dynasty. Later, the two-way theory inherited and developed by Zhu became famous all over the world? Zhu Cheng school? . Shi Yang and Zuo You, who are studying Chengcheng, have great respect. You Yang, two people, originally studied under Cheng Hao. After Cheng Hao's death, both of them were forty years old and had been admitted to Jinshi. However, they had to go to Cheng Yi to continue their studies. The story happened on the day when they first visited Cheng Yi in Songyang Academy.
According to legend, one day, Shi Yang and You Zuo came to Songyang Academy to visit Cheng Yi, and met an old gentleman who closed his eyes and took a nap. Cheng Yi knew that two guests were coming, but he wanted to keep silent and ignored them. Yang Heyou dared not disturb Mr. Wang's rest, but stood in awe and said nothing until he opened his eyes. After waiting for a long time, Cheng Yicai woke up like Luo. When she saw Yang and you, she pretended to be surprised and said, Ah! Ah! Senior has been here for a long time! ? It means you two are still here. It was a very cold day in winter, and I don't know when it began to snow. There is more than a foot of snow outside the door.
The second part of the story about educating children to be polite is that there is a foreign-funded enterprise in Beijing, which has high requirements for academic qualifications, foreign languages, height and appearance, but the salary is also quite high, so many high-quality talents apply. These young people, with five passes and six generals, reached the last pass: the general manager interview. These young people feel very simple, just going through the motions, and they are sure to win.
Unexpectedly, something went wrong in this interview. As soon as we met, the general manager said, I'm sorry, young man. I am in a hurry. I'm going out 10 minutes. could you wait for me ？ The young man said: no problem, you go first, we will wait for you. ? When the boss left, the young people were full of pride and complacency. Looking around the boss's big desk, they saw a pile of documents, letters and materials. Young man, look at this pile. I'll just look at this pile. After reading it, I'll communicate: Oh, this looks good.
10 minutes later, the general manager came back and said that the interview was over. ? No? We are still waiting for you. ? The boss said: when I am away, your performance is an interview. It's a pity that none of you passed the exam. Because our company never accepts people who rummage through other people's things. ? Oh, these young people beat their chests. Why are they so emotional? They said:? We have never heard of not rummaging through other people's things since we were so big. ?
Think about it, in which family and school do we often carry out such education? Turning things over is a habit and curiosity when I was a child. The child went to the door and saw someone's drawers rummaging through them one by one. When mom and dad get off work, the children will go through mom and dad's bags. However, for children, this is a feature, not a disadvantage. He was just curious. He has a low degree of socialization and doesn't know how to respect others.
The story of educating children to be polite Part III