Some family education concepts are very advanced, and children are not required to have good grades and high rankings. In fact, a person's academic performance in school does not determine his life. I have met many children who have failed in school and have realized their dreams of success after entering the society, while some so-called schoolmasters, with high scores and low ability, can only stick to a grass-roots position for life. Some people study well and like to engage in scientific research, while some children jump in thinking and can't show their advantages in school, but they have more choices after entering the society. Therefore, a family with excellent educational ideas can educate an optimistic and positive child who is not afraid of setbacks.
However, some families are very backward in their educational concepts, and have criticized their children for almost a long time, thinking that learning is the only way to change their destiny. Influenced by China's traditional thought, many families are full of violence and scolding. The parents of these families think they are authoritative, always talking about how good other people's children are and how poor their own children are. They think that filial sons will be reprimanded and beaten if they don't do their homework and their grades don't improve. This kind of family will ruin a child's life, and the educated child will have no self-confidence, distorted heart, rigid thinking and no competitiveness after entering the society.
Being born in a family directly determines a child's life. Some children can solve their difficulties all their lives, while others can't solve family of origin's difficulties all their lives. Especially the educational concept, when children have not fully understood the world, the educational concept of family origin forces children to accept their parents' life. They grow up according to their parents' requirements, but in the end they will only grow more unhappy. Some can understand that their education in the family they came from is a failure, while others simply don't realize it, and then continue to torture their children.