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Reflections on family education under the epidemic situation
In the past few months, I believe that my predecessors have seen too many reports. Some mothers jumped off the building because of the collapse of their children's online classes. Some children commit suicide because they can't feel the love of their parents. During this period, I also received many text messages and phone calls from my parents. Some mothers beat their children and regret that they can't sleep. Some children accidentally broke their teeth, and my mother blamed herself for depression. I also called 12 for psychological consultation last night. A senior one in Liushi had a conflict with his father. My mother said: Her father and I love her very much, and she can buy whatever she wants. However, children feel that their parents love their younger brother more than her. A girl who is cheerful outside is bitter and astringent when she comes home, like a bitter gourd. Some children even said to me seriously: if I fall, it will definitely not be because of the epidemic but because of my mother.

When the Secretary-General assigned a task to talk about family education, the first word that came to my mind was: return.

In this epidemic, all of us have returned to the place where we should be quiet. This is home. Whether forced or conscious, we chose to return first anyway. Now people all over the world are seeking reconciliation with the retrogressive virus. Going back is going home, going back to where you came from; Go back to your position, go back to your position. How to return to your inner position, the heart should return to its place.

As long as parents are in place, children can be in place. Without this epidemic in the future, reunification is also our great wisdom to solve and resolve family education.

But some people are still forced to stay at home, and their hearts are still floating outside. Home is a place to raise people, and now I can't raise people. Their strangeness to their families, such as the strangeness of familiar people, has been a long time since the husband and wife talked together. During that time, they tried hard to find words and didn't know much about their children. What is pitiful in this world is not the distance between strangers, but the mutual indifference between relatives. This is very troublesome.

We are all saying that "the parents' heart of a doctor is the parents' heart of a teacher". Parents' hearts are the greatest, warmest and full of love. "In this epidemic, we saw the medical staff who fought in the front line, which moved us. They risked their lives in this war and touched the people of the whole country. They are the parents of doctors. My parents have come back. As long as we take out our parents' hearts, the rest can be solved better. Parents' hearts are not utilitarian, but full of warmth, love, tolerance and unconditional acceptance, just like our current medical staff's acceptance of virus carriers. Can we accept our children as medical staff accept patients? This is the heart of parents. "Raise trees, first raise roots; To raise fish, we must first raise water; Cultivate people, cultivate the heart first. The heart of raising children. This is a key point shared today, called regression. This concept is the master switch for all problems. Can parents' hearts return to their place? It determines whether the original healing function of family education, the original self-repair function of family education and the original growth of children's inner energy can be effectively started at home in this extraordinary period.

Our Chinese culture, the greatest strength of the Chinese nation, has not died out for five thousand years, because in the face of numerous crises, we can all preserve, revive and awaken our original wisdom and energy. The busyness of the present and the rhythm of the past are an abrupt end, a return, a re-understanding of self, and a re-understanding of self, family, children, education and life.

So some time ago, among several schoolmates who studied Chinese studies together, a schoolmate in the northeast shared that the epidemic was sudden, and her parents-in-law and sister-in-law spent the New Year at her house, and then they couldn't go back. The family lived happily, and his 16-year-old child surprised his grandparents. The child's mind and pattern, as well as the kind of thinking for others, are very gentlemanly.

During the epidemic, we received a lot of information that needed psychological help, so we began to give six psychological lectures in the radio group on Tuesday in February, and many students reported that they benefited a lot. In fact, western psychology is only 140 years old. Based on various experimental studies, the sample is very comprehensive, just the product of an era! Western philosophy, like the father of psychology, has a history of 600 years and is divided into many schools according to the logic of the mind. China's philosophy is a 5000-year history of China studies. Based on the nature and soul of heaven and earth, you can see that although the masters of Chinese studies have gone through hardships, they all live a long life. Feng Youlan, a famous philosopher, said: Western philosophy seeks truth, while Eastern philosophy seeks goodness! In the west, experiments are used to seek truth, while in the east, we say that the unity of man and nature is true; Unity of knowing and doing is good; The unity of body and mind is beauty.

When talking about truth, goodness and beauty, Mr. Li Li said that human beings seek truth to produce science, goodness to produce philosophy (culture), and beauty to produce art, okay. .

I pray that the world will be calm as soon as possible, and each has its own beauty, beautiful beauty, beautiful beauty, and the world is one.