A good word warms spring, but a bad word hurts June. Sincere praise will give people strength, confidence and inspiration. Men are also sensitive and fragile, and need praise, even if it is only a simple compliment, it will bring him great influence and play an unexpected role. Through practice, I think "praise" plays a very important role in motivating my husband. Woman ~! Please don't be stingy with your praise, give your husband more affirmation and encouragement! It will turn into drizzle, wetting the dream of seeds; Become a warm spring and soothe the soul warmly. Husband will be like a seedling, with a little sunshine, it will be brilliant and thrive! Men sometimes give us the feeling that they are so powerful, great and invincible that women can't admire them, but sometimes they feel that they are as dependent and willful as a child and need people's care, which makes women's maternal love come to life. Man is a contradiction, one is an angel and the other is a devil; On one side is a flame, and on the other side is an ice sea; On the one hand, it is rational, on the other hand, it is crazy. Of course, he is not unaware that there are many more handsome men in the world, but he is still willing to be a handsome man in the eyes of his wife. I think it's good for me to praise my husband properly, instead of interfering in other people's affairs. We both get off work at the same time. He hates going to the kitchen. I cook most of the time, and occasionally I don't like cooking. I encourage him with words, and I will say, "Honey, you haven't made vinegar cabbage for a long time. I am so excited. The dish you cooked is equivalent to a special chef. Oh, will you cook it again today? " Of course, he won't know. He's not tied to a special chef at all. After my compliment, he will suddenly get interested and roll up his sleeves and go into the kitchen. As for me, I just wandered around in front of the computer quietly. When my husband came back from a business trip, the clothes he bought for me were extremely rustic, and I also said, "Ah! Honey, you really have a good eye. This dress is super nice. " I gave these clothes away a few days later. He is a careless man and doesn't remember how many clothes I have. If my husband is rewarded for his excellent work in the unit, he should be praised even more: "My husband has excellent skills, a strong sense of responsibility, hard work and a down-to-earth style. I was rated as an advanced individual in my family this year! " My husband happily accepted the honorary title of "advanced individual in the family". I can see that he has a beautiful heart. Of course, I really want him to make a career. Therefore, if you praise your husband, you should also praise him appropriately, pay attention to strategy and encourage him to go in the right direction. If I don't praise him properly, he will be complacent and not enterprising all day, which will be counterproductive. One day, when my husband came home, he didn't talk and laugh as usual, his mouth was blistered and he sat on the sofa silently. As soon as I saw something was wrong, I ignored him. Leave him alone first. I specially cooked a few more dishes that day. After dinner, I sat with him and asked why. It turned out that he did some business in his spare time, selling 15 bundles of plywood to the construction site. When he settled accounts with others, it was regarded as eleven bundles, and as a result, he lost more than 5 thousand. He remembered that when he came to see others, they changed the packaging to eleven bundles, and he couldn't explain it clearly. I encouraged him to say, "My husband is a man, a pure man! There are too many things in my life, and I have no psychological endurance. That's not my husband! " My husband listened to my talk about Lima spirit and ate two bowls of rice. The next day, I went to find a friend who knew my family very well and asked for my money back. My husband picked me up and turned around on the ground several times ~! ! As the saying goes, there is no horse spoon that does not touch the side of the pot. There are contradictions between husband and wife, so don't be angry, unreasonable or bear grudges. A little contradiction between husband and wife will become a little Mars, with a hot temper, which will not solve any problems and will only hurt the feelings of two people. There are also unreasonable couples who point their fingers at Maimang. There was also a quarrel between husband and wife, which eventually led to the cold war. This will do more harm to feelings, and if it is serious, it will lead to the breakdown of feelings between the two sides. Mark my words, don't underestimate your husband. He is not perfect. You are disappointed to see so many shortcomings of him. Actually, it's the same if you change it. Are flawed people. Therefore, smart women choose how to cultivate their husbands well, instead of thinking about changing husbands all day or taking care of other husbands. Other husbands are others' when they are good. They won't send you flowers when they make money. They won't come to you when you are sick, they won't cook for you when you are hungry, and they won't bring you water when you are thirsty. So cherish your husband, because he is the one who can accompany you all your life. If you can praise and educate your husband like a child, it will certainly play a great role in marriage, and your husband will develop as you expect.