First of all, make detailed planning as soon as possible.

Plan as early as possible, for example, when choosing a spouse, consider whether the other person is likely to be a good father and mother; It is necessary to prepare a stable, safe and warm growth space for the birth of children; We should think about what kind of people we want our children to grow up into and how to take care of and guide them in the process of growing up.

Second, help children achieve a perfect start.

A good beginning is half the battle. Of course, this perfect start does not require children to know a few words earlier than others. For the start of life, the most important thing is to form a healthy personality, have self-esteem and self-confidence, and believe that you can face the world successfully and friendly, and face life with a smile. In the infancy of children, we should accompany them as much as possible and let them know that they are important and cared for; Give children as much affirmation and praise as possible and let them know that "I am great". With active attention, children will gradually form some advantages, such as good intelligence, friendly personality and strong self-care ability. These help them continue to win the appreciation and support of the people around them after leaving home.