In family education, it is particularly important to give children more opportunities to choose, and in daily life, it is particularly important to cultivate children's ability to master choice, judgment and choice. The following are eight essays on the open class of family education in 2022. Welcome everyone to learn from them!
Family and School Educate Virtues and Cultivate People Together —— Comments on the 2022 Open Class of Family Education 1 Our families in China have been paying attention to "farming and reading" since ancient times, and now they don't need to farm, so education has naturally become the top priority of every family. As the old saying goes: "If you don't teach, it's your father's fault;" It is natural that teachers are lazy because of lax teaching, but in today's society, the main body of education should be children, and both family education and school education should play a guiding role.
In family education, it is the father's fault to raise but not teach. In today's society, with rich material life, there will naturally be no tragedy of "starving women on the road and abandoning grass with children"-since "all dogs and horses are raised", it is more and more important for families to "teach" children. Everything in today's society is interconnected, and the connection between people is getting closer and closer. No one can cut off contact with society like a hermit. Therefore, the most important purpose of family education is to cultivate children's "sociality", which is to "teach" and "educate" children. Zhuge Liang's Book of Commandments begins with "a gentleman's journey, self-cultivation by quietness and self-cultivation by thrift", which shows the importance of conduct to a person. Gentle, modest and polite, these all need parents to set an example. For example, the news report "the mother who blocked the door and waited for her father to get on the bus" is a typical negative example. Parents' words and deeds guide children to become rational and educated people. Only when a child truly becomes a person can he join the society and shine.
When children become civilized and rational modern people in good family education, school education should impart knowledge to children and guide them to discover and know themselves.
It seems that China people's judgment on school education is that strict teachers make excellent students. But is this really all? Yan is of course right, but the purpose of Yan is to guide children to concentrate on learning knowledge-Mr. Shou can clap his hands, but the purpose of clapping is to make children recite well. Therefore, as long as it can guide the good development of children, whether it is strict or loose, it will play a positive role. More importantly, in school education, schools and teachers should provide a platform for children to discover their interests and abilities and find the direction of future development. Mr. Lu Xun said in "On Cultural Bias" published by 1908: "To strive for other countries to do things, we should establish people first, and others should establish themselves before doing things. If it is Taoism, it is respect for personality and spirituality. " I think this is the purpose of school education today ―― moral education and respect for individuality. Then, under this standard, strictness is not the norm, but "guidance", how to guide students to discover themselves. As a result, emerging courses such as "Study Tour", "Science and Technology Innovation Competition" and "Art Troupe" have emerged as the times require, becoming "ladders" and "street lamps" to help students and guide children to explore the world, discover themselves and seek their ideals. Instead of "spoon-feeding" children what kind of talents they want to be.
This "baby-oriented" educational concept is developing in full swing in today's society, moistening things silently and waiting for flowers to bloom. Presumably, a new generation of young people who have grown up under this educational theory will become the new "backbone" of the Chinese nation when a hundred flowers bloom.
Family and School Educate Moral People Together —— Reflections on the Open Class of Family Education in 2022 2. A person who contributes to society is likely to have something to do with his family style and study style, in addition to his personal opportunities and efforts. Good family style and students have long been internalized into his spiritual flesh and blood, which is vividly reflected in his life.
Yu Yi, a famous Chinese education expert in China and a special Chinese teacher in China, lost her father at the age of 15, and her semi-illiterate mother with five young children suddenly lost her dependence on life. Due to financial difficulties at home, Yu Yi helped his mother mend clothes and socks and took care of his younger brothers and sisters since childhood. However, the mother's education for her child has influenced her life. She told the children that being a man is the most important thing. First, they should be kind-hearted, which is called human beings. Second, be diligent. It's no big deal to suffer for yourself. As long as it can help others, the mother's thoughts have deeply influenced the child's heart.
At the age of 65,438+08, Yu Yi left his hometown of Zhenjiang, Jiangsu, and was admitted to the Education Department of Fudan University in Shanghai. The academic spirit of famous professors such as Cao Fu and Zhou Yutong nourished Yu Yi's profound knowledge base. In her student days, these famous teachers set an example and precipitated her profound traditional cultural character.
Throughout the world, successful talents from all walks of life have achieved their achievements under the influence of good family style and study style.
Mencius lost his father in his childhood and lived with his mother since childhood. Meng Mu's education of Mencius was very strict. In order to create a good family style and study style for little Mencius, she chose to move three times and finally settled down next to a school. Mencius concentrated on his studies and eventually became a great scholar. This is the story of "Meng Mu's Three Movements".
Yue Fei's determination to serve the country is also inseparable from her mother-in-law's education. When Yue Fei was a child, her mother-in-law personally tattooed the words "loyal to the country" on her back in order to inspire Yue Fei. In the Southern Song Dynasty, people often said that "it is easy to shake the mountain, but difficult to shake the Yue family army". Yue Fei led Yue Jiajun to fight against Jin Bing, made great contributions, and practiced his mother's wish all his life: to serve the country faithfully.
Qian Xuesen, Qian Qichen, Qian Mu, Qian Weichang ... These well-known industry leaders and national pillars all come from the same "Qian family" and are all taught by the same family style. Qian's descendants still keep the habit of reading collectively in Tomb-Sweeping Day, weddings and other major family activities. The family education of "advocating learning and having both ability and political integrity" received since childhood has had a positive impact on their later life growth.
The Letter from Fu Lei is popular all over the world, because Fu Lei trained his son Fu Cong better than him. Father-son communication is a general textbook for educating children to grow up. In fact, their father and son are the father-son relationship of teacher-student love. Fu Cong was bathed in a good family style and style of study since he was a child.
As a teacher, we should actively create a good family style for children in the family, create a good reading environment, a democratic living environment, cultivate the spirit of hard struggle, love the country, love the people and love the party. To create a good style of study for students in school, it is better to catch up with learning, ask questions if you don't understand, study hard, practice hard, establish national ambition and cultivate national sentiment.
Family and school educate people together--thoughts on the open class of family education in 2022. The study and life in primary school for nearly five years left me many wonderful memories. Before I graduated, when I saw the photos I took in primary school, I couldn't help thinking of my good friend, the ginkgo tree on campus and the teacher's teaching not long ago.
The first math exam this semester, I got an excellent score of 100. Coupled with the usual teacher's preference for me, I can't help feeling a little smug, conceited and complacent. As a result, I got 97 points in the second exam, but I didn't realize my own problems. I actually got 96 points this time. In fact, it is no accident that I have achieved such results. Teacher Ji reminded me to attend classes well twice, but I got worse. Not only did I pass small notes and talk in class, but my teacher also rolled her eyes after criticizing me. I was wrong! By chance, my mother knew about it. When I came home from school at noon, my mother severely criticized me. My mother knows nothing about what I do at school. She is very disappointed in me.
When I arrived at school in the afternoon, Mr. Ji said to me, "Joe, there is nothing wrong with you, but there are too many things. You should not disrespect the teacher!" " Besides, it's too easy to be complacent. "I bowed my head in shame, my face was boiling hot, and I couldn't help thinking: I shouldn't be so angry, let alone talk in class. The teacher criticized me for being nice to me. How lucky we are to meet such a serious and responsible teacher as Mr. Ji, I still don't understand the teacher. Thinking of this, my head is lower.
After listening to the teacher's earnest words, I regret it very much. I regret that I was ignorant for a while and could not understand the teacher's concern for me. Through this incident, I understand the infinite teaching of the teacher, which will make me unforgettable!
Family and School Educate People Together —— Reflections on the Open Class of Family Education in 2022.4 In a blink of an eye, we will leave our alma mater. During my six years of studying in Shanghai, there were many sweet and sour things, but what I can't forget so far is the teacher's teaching.
The teacher's name is Chen Xinmin. He is nearly sixty years old and a kind old man. His head is bald, his face is always smiling, his eyes are deep, he can let you see through the future and yourself, and he has a slight white beard on his mouth. Although he looks very kind, everyone is afraid if he gets serious. On this day, the teacher told us about subtraction, addition and subtraction, but I was distracted in class and the teacher didn't listen to anything. After the teacher finished speaking, he handed out the notebook and left some simple questions, but I didn't understand the relationship. You don't say! I scribbled it casually and handed it to the teacher for inspection, but when I got it, I saw that the question was wrong and handed it in, so I had to be scolded. The teacher criticized me when she saw that my relationship was wrong. My face is very red and I don't know what to do. At this time, the teacher's face turned red, as if she were angry with me. After the teacher criticized me, he asked me to return to my seat. I cried when I sat in my seat. At this time, the class was over, and Bing Yan and Ke Fan came to comfort me. At this time, the paper on the notebook was wet with tears. Then Bing Yan told me about the relationship, and I gradually understood. I sobbed and wrote it down. After writing, I gave my notebook to the teacher for examination. After reading it, the teacher kindly said to me, "Do your homework well in the future and don't be distracted in class."
On the way back to class, I was very happy, as sweet as honey, and the teacher's words flowed through my thirsty heart like sweet spring. Although he can't teach me in the future, I will always keep this sentence in mind. Teacher, thank you for teaching me.
Family and School Educate Sages Together —— Comment on the Open Class of Family Education in 2022. At noon one summer, Mr. Chen came to the classroom and pointed to the word "lazy" in my exercise book and asked me to look it up in the dictionary. I slowly took out my dictionary in the classroom, turned page by page, and finally found it. In less than a minute, I sent my exercise book to Mr. Chen's desk and returned to the classroom. I took out my extracurricular books and read them with relish.
After a while, Mr. Chen came to the classroom again. He put a big hand on my head and said, "How could you be so careless?" I looked it up wrong in the dictionary. What a fool! Do you want to modify it three times? "Teacher Chen is not angry. I was embarrassed to know that I was wrong. I should take my homework seriously and stop being careless, or I will really be criticized. I thought to myself. The third time I wanted to hand in my notebook, Mr. Chen came to the classroom first. He loudly handed me my new nickname: "Little idiot, is it nice?" The teacher came to me with a smile. I think the teacher really shouted such an ugly nickname that I was laughed at by my classmates. Why is the teacher so naive and doesn't care about my face at all? What a nuisance! But the affable appearance of the teacher made me feel much better. I handed the notebook to the teacher, and in the process of answering it, the teacher's expression suddenly became serious and indifferent, and I corrected it seriously. No wonder parents say that Mr. Chen is a good teacher and has a good education method.
After the book was approved, Mr. Chen resumed his previous smile and told me that being a man and doing things are very serious things. If you want to do things in Zhejiang, you must be serious to be perfect. Teacher Chen's inculcation has made me unforgettable all my life!
Family and School Educate Virtuous People Together —— Comment on the Open Class of Family Education in 2022. The teacher is a gardener and the teacher is a mother. This is absolutely correct. Teacher Wang is a person who looks like a gardener and mother to students. He is my deepest impression, and I will never forget it.
Teacher Wang took over our class in grade one. She is of medium height, with long hair, blushing and a pair of bright eyes showing kindness.
The most unforgettable time was near the end of the third grade. One day, the students arrived at school on time, but Mr. Wang, who always greeted his classmates at the door of the classroom early, didn't come. Everyone is twittering, and the headmaster is coming. He told us that Miss Wang's child Xiaohong's hand was frostbitten and was being taken to the hospital. I'm afraid she can't come to class. I hope everyone will study hard. Everyone was very sad after listening to it. As soon as the doorbell rang, Mr. Wang pushed the door open like a gust of wind. The students opened their eyes wide and were very surprised at Mr. Wang's arrival. They asked what Mr. Wang's child would do and how her injury was. Teacher Wang wiped the sweat on his face and said it doesn't matter, so let's hurry to class. The monitor found that the students around him were very worried, so he got up and took the lead to let Mr. Wang go back to the hospital to take care of the children and ensure that the students could study hard. Miss Wang looked at her classmates with tears in her eyes and said, "Thank you for your concern. It doesn't matter if the child is taken care of by the hospital. But you are going to the fourth grade soon, and the final exam is coming, which is very important for you. How can you be absent from class? Besides, you are also my child! " Teacher Wang neglected his children for everyone's study, which made us very moved. So we are also very serious about this course.
Teacher Wang, your teachings will never be forgotten by me, and they are deeply engraved in my heart.
Family and School Educate Virtues and Cultivate People Together —— Comments on 2022 Family Education Open Class 7 From the moment we were born, we were a member of a collective —— a member of the family. From that day on, my family and parents followed us closely. At that moment, we also started our lifelong learning and the most important education-family education. Our parents have become our best teachers, and family education is particularly important in our life.
There is an old saying in China: The child is not the godfather's fault, which means that if the child's conduct is bad, it must be related to his parents. In fact, today, when we watch legal programs, most juvenile offenders are related to their families.
I still remember that on the "Legal Online" broadcast by CCTV, the reporter visited some juvenile delinquents in Beijing and interviewed them. Most of them said that their parents were busy and wanted to play outside, so they embarked on this road. One of the juvenile delinquents impressed me the most. The juvenile offender was detained for drinking and fighting. He told reporters that he used to smoke and drink and do everything. The reporter looked at such a boy who was only 15 years old and felt very puzzled. Why do such boys make so many bad behaviors? The boy said: after his father divorced his mother, he took him with him, and his father drank and smoked. As time went on, he learned.
Hearing the news, we were shocked that there were so many juvenile delinquents in the juvenile detention center. It is precisely because of their parents' bad behavior that they have embarked on the road of crime. Some people may say that most of them are divorced parents. In fact, parents' divorce will not bring too much shadow to their children. Liu Yiting, a Harvard girl, also lives in a single-parent family, but she became an outstanding talent and was admitted to Harvard University in 2002. Her mother is a great single mother. From an early age, my mother trained Liu Yiting from all aspects and paid attention to her physical and mental development.
Family education is very important to each of us. Good family education will make children become excellent talents with all-round development in morality, intelligence, physique and beauty. Good family education and correct family education can make children better integrate into society, get along with others and become excellent people in the future.
Should parents now consider the way of education, carry out correct family education, set an example for their children, educate their children in all aspects, and make them become excellent people? Family education is essential for each of us. It can be said that 90% of success comes from family education.
Family and School Educate People Together —— Comments on the Open Class of Family Education in 2022 8 Today, under the leadership of the teacher from Baoshan Branch of the School of Journalism for Young Master, we came to e-mart Supermarket and Plaza to interview the issue of "Family Education Series".
As soon as I entered the supermarket, I stared at an uncle with a little brother. I stepped forward and started my interview with a smile. "Hello, uncle, I'm a small reporter from the small master newspaper school. Can you accept my interview? " Uncle readily agreed. "Do you think it is important to communicate with children in the family? Do you think paternalism plays an important role in family education? " My uncle said kindly, "it is of course important to communicate with children, because without communication with children, there is no way to understand their young hearts and conduct correct education." I think paternalism should play an important role in the family. " Uncle changed the subject, his tone faded, and he looked at his little brother affectionately. "But I have too little time. Usually, the mother of the child is tutoring him. I can only bring him to play during the break, and I am sorry for him. " I also think of my father who travels a lot, and my eyes are going red. I quickly changed the subject. "Do you think a good boy will be encouraged? Have you ever thought about your child's feelings when you criticize him? " Uncle smiled. "Of course, children should be encouraged more. Children like to be encouraged. He will do things better, but not everyone is encouraged. He should be criticized for not doing well, but he really didn't consider his feelings when criticizing him. " "Thank you for accepting my interview. You are a good father. " My uncle signed it.
Then I interviewed many parents and an American friend. Although he has no children, from talking with him, I know that family education in the United States is really different from that in China. In the interview, I learned that the reason why our parents in China strictly demand our study is related to our traditional examination methods.
Through this interview, I know that our parents have high hopes for us and express their love in various ways. We also know the shortcomings of our family education: most families focus on the education of mothers or elders, and fathers are basically busy with work, which reduces communication and education with children, making some children unable to stand on their own feet, spoiled and lacking in courage. I want to call on fathers to spend more time with their children through this interview, and don't let our children lack fatherly love.