How do you feel about "Family Education Don't Lose" 1? After reading the book "Don't lose in family education" carefully, I found that it is really a good book with operability, guidance, practicality and professionalism. When I open this book, the first thing I see is a subtitle, which makes people clear at a glance and can't help but resonate. There are many short stories in the book that are more attractive. Show us all the family education concepts with real examples, so that we can better understand the application and operation of educational concepts.
? With the development of society, more and more people begin to pay attention to family education. There is a terrible "contrast" in the book that appeals to me. The article points out the negative effects of three terrible "comparisons". First of all, he was the first to point out that children who like to "compare" are cultivated. The mothers of two children met on the road and began to "compare". As a result, the two children began to "compare" in kindergarten. This phenomenon is not difficult to find in the process of getting along with children. The child will say, "My skirt is very expensive, and my mother bought it." Another child will say, "I have one more beautiful than yours."
? In fact, parents feel helpless and puzzled about the comparison between children. They can't figure out how such a young child can learn to compare food, clothes and whose house is decorated better. In fact, parents don't know that children are their parents' shadows, and mothers are "comparing". Of course, children learn quickly, and their words and deeds often exert a subtle influence on them. There is another example. A child has always liked watching TV. His mother said, "All you know is watching TV. You see how obedient your sister is. You practice playing the piano as soon as you come back ..." The child immediately became unhappy after hearing what her mother said, and wondered if she was really useless. His mother's words made him sad.
? In fact, in life, there will be many such situations. Parents like to criticize their children in front of others. Over time, they will have the idea of "being inferior to others everywhere", which is actually worth pondering as a teacher. When a student often makes mistakes, we should find out the reasons, don't rush to accuse him, and don't compare with others, because it is heavier every time. The last negative effect is that comparison will cause mental stress to children. In fact, parents who love to compare with others always want their children to be better than others' children. When children are not satisfactory, they often have strong disappointment. Conversely, some children always want to be better than other children in some aspects in order to get their parents' approval. Once other children surpass themselves, they will also have great psychological pressure.
? Throughout Family Education Don't Lose, there are many ways to learn. In the communication with children, we know that we should think from the children's point of view, respect the uniqueness of children and give up comparison. Every child has his own characteristics and personality, so every child should develop on his own basis, instead of becoming a copy of other children. Only in this way can our children not lose in family education, and our children will be healthier, more optimistic and more motivated.
? Good parents and good teachers are all learned. I believe that with the joint efforts and careful watering of parents and teachers, our children will surely grow sturdily.
? Reflections on "Family Education Can't Lose"
? Nowadays, most families are only children, and the word "independence" embodies different "unique" personalities. Because there is only one child in the family and no peers of the same age grow up together, this "unique" child is self-centered and always feels that he is right. Not only did I feel that I was right, but with the "support" of my family, my child fell down. Many times, you will see grandpa (grandma): "It is this rotten land that made our baby fall down and step on it, and grandpa beat him." How can such an education have a tolerant child, how to cooperate and share with others, and there is only oneself in the small world.
? The word "tolerance" is interpreted as: magnanimous, indifferent and not pursuing, tolerant of others. Loose accommodation. Tolerance is the most beautiful flower in human nature, and tolerance is the regulator of mental health. People will always suffer, be misunderstood and be wronged in social communication. Faced with these, the wisest choice is to learn to be tolerant. Tolerance is a good psychological quality; Tolerance is extraordinary tolerance and broad mind; Tolerance is a noble quality and lofty realm; Tolerance is a light of love and a supreme blessing; Tolerance is the wisdom of survival and the art of life. It not only contains understanding and forgiveness, but also shows temperament and mind, strength and firmness.
? Some parents can't tolerate the slightest mistake in treating their children. Excessive harshness and constant criticism will leave a bad influence and shadow on children's growth. Example is better than precept. Parents are the first teachers of the children. Personally, I am not only a teacher, but also a parent. When educating children, I often ask myself, "Did I do this?" As an example for children to follow, the exemplary role of parents is all-round. Children from small to large, parents' every move, words and deeds are in the eyes, and the exemplary role of parents can not be ignored. Tolerance is the supreme virtue in human life, and life needs tolerance. Tolerance is a silent education. Only tolerant people, their beliefs are more real.
? The stories in picture books are deeply loved by children. Children can learn a lot from bedtime stories. After the story is finished, they can talk to their children about the truth in the story, and cultivate their good character invisibly in the form that children like to see and hear. Children will inevitably have friction and unhappiness in their interactions with their peers. Parents can consciously communicate with their children, listen to their thoughts, empathize with them while understanding them, and help them understand the thoughts and behaviors of others. I deeply understand the depth and responsibility of love. In fact, parents may wish to adopt a tolerant attitude and give their children a chance to admit their mistakes and correct them. Parents should make more changes and tolerate their children's learning. Growth is more important than achievement. Set an example of tolerance for children from an early age. Hugo, a great writer, once said, "What is more vast than the sky is the human mind." Parents try to tolerate their children and let them learn to tolerate others.
? All for the children, all for the children. As Freud Bell, a German educator, said: The fate of children is in the hands of parents. Never lose in family education, hold up tomorrow's sun and create a happy life for children.
Reflections on "family education does not lose" 3? In kindergarten work, parents' work is a long-term and arduous work. In our daily work, we often face our children and parents. How to let parents know about our kindergarten work, understand us and support us is our parents' unremitting task.
? In this semester, with the growth of children, parents gradually realize that education is not only our business, but also family education. So, at the parent-teacher meeting at the beginning of the semester, everyone enthusiastically bought the book "Don't lose in family education". With this book, many parents' educational concepts have improved a lot.
? In order to make children not lose at the starting point, we have some interactions with parents for some common family education problems, and found that parents' educational views are changing.
? For example, in the sharing article in June, we discussed whether family education should adopt "strict education" or "let nature take its course". Parents in our class have their own opinions. Many answers give us a new understanding. Many parents believe that for the minimum bottom line, we must be strict and cannot compromise. For example, the rules of eating, not fighting when playing with children, rude; Traffic rules to be observed when walking on the road, school rules and regulations to be observed, etc.
? However, for hobbies, it is recommended to let nature take its course. Parents are very opposed to letting their children learn things they don't like at all out of utilitarian heart.
? Similar views are based on children, rather than letting children do whatever they want to avoid children being in a passive position in the family. This is something we are gratified by.
? In view of the phenomenon that parents in our class are more fond of their children, we often hope that children will get more encouragement and never have the problem of blame. We also let parents participate in the discussion. The results show that many parents are more rational. Here I help parents summarize a few points.
? 1, praise should be specific, small, not big, parents should carefully observe some small things in their children's lives and praise things worthy of praise.
? 2. praise should be timely, strike while the iron is hot, and it will be ineffective if you miss the opportunity of praise.
? 3. When praising, don't give your child some promises that you can't make easily. Parents should keep their words, and some should make promises to their children.
? 4. Don't confuse doubt with praise. Praise should be based on trust. Don't add "Did you do this?" After praise.
? 5, don't let children get praise is too difficult, too difficult will make children lose confidence and enthusiasm. As a parent, I think it is necessary to have certain skills in praising children.
? Of course, in family education, the individual differences in our class are also obvious. Some parents ignore the importance of family education because of work problems or other problems. When faced with some bad behaviors of children, regardless, even a little cover-up. In this regard, we also hope to go deep into the work of this part of the family next semester. For example, changing parents' concept of parenting. Continue to guide parents to cultivate their children's habits and emotions, instead of just focusing on knowledge and skills; Secondly, we should continue to play the role of family members, and encourage more parents to participate in our class work, and encourage every parent to participate and make suggestions for the healthy and happy growth of our children. Communicate with these parents more so that they can also change their parenting style, care more about their children and participate in their growth.
? In short, the education of children should be consistent with the educational philosophy of parents and teachers, so that children can grow up healthily and happily. We should continue to work hard, work with parents, pay attention to the growth of children, and make every child make great progress.