The transformation of a "problem student"

I really don't want to take a new class in grade nine.

I have suffered from succession, especially the head teacher, who is the "stepmother" of the new class. He tried his best to make trouble for you, to make trouble for you. No matter how hard you give him, you can't warm his heart.

Fortunately, the leader said that this time I gave you a "good class" and all my classmates got good grades, so no one would bother you. Then, a hanging heart just relaxed a little.

Things are not as simple as imagined.

On the first day of my succession, I met a special student ―― everyone else was sitting upright, but he was sleeping on his desk, snoring like thunder. Everyone looks askance, smiles and sighs from time to time, and looks at my reaction!

I understand that this is a test for me and the bottom line for me to challenge my teacher. Silently, I walked up to him, stroked his head and said, "What's the matter, son? Are you sick? "

"Oh, oh, ... teacher, I have a ... a headache." He was a little flustered, even a little incoherent.

I learned from other children that this child is a left-behind child, and his parents have been working in other places and neglected management. In the seventh and eighth grades, he was a prickly troublemaker, and almost all the female teachers in the class were angry and cried by him. He found his own pleasure in this way.

It is said that at that time, his greatest pleasure was playing tricks on the teacher, watching the teacher shout angrily: "get out, I don't want to see you!" " "He can walk out of the classroom, carefree, in the eyes of others envy, playing on the basketball court for a while, and playing with his mobile phone for a while. The teacher really can't do anything about him.

The child's parents are working in other places, and they are also heartbroken for this child. They let him enter a good class through their relationship, hoping that he can be well influenced by his classmates around him, so as to change himself and return to the right path. This is a very clever boy, and his grades in primary school are still good. Even though he doesn't study much in junior high school, he is still above average in his class. His parents work in other places, and he lives with his grandparents.

The day after I took over, I checked my shift and found a lot of messy snacks in his desk drawer. I talked to him, and his attitude seemed very good, assuring me that "this kind of thing won't happen again".

I think this child should be easy to manage, not as difficult as the legend.

It turns out that my idea is too simple.

This is the common problem of these children-they speak better than anyone on the surface, but their actual performance is surprising, which is why they are difficult to educate. Yes, the lost lamb can't come back so easily. Soon, he committed another crime. And created a "sensational" fight.

Because of disagreement, he punched Xiaohua, a classmate in our class, with his powerful fist. In a flash, Xiaohua's nose and mouth were bleeding, and the scene was terrible. Several teachers passed by and criticized him, but he was eloquent and confident, and even wanted to "hold hands" with the teacher. The teachers had no choice but to ask their classmates to run to the office and call me. When I arrived at the "scene of the accident", the classmate who was beaten had been taken away by others to clean up the wound. He was still there, with a look of throwing caution to the wind and loving to plunge into the plunge.

To tell the truth, I'm really angry. Calling him to the office, I was too angry to say a word. At that time, I wanted to call my parents directly and take the children away. However, on second thought, no, maybe, this phone call pushed him into the abyss and there was no chance to turn over again.

However, I still picked up the phone and dialed his parents. He just doesn't care, but now he's staring at me, staring at me like he can eat people. It seems that he is afraid to call his parents.

? "Hello, are you Xiaojun's parents? Come back and spend time with the children when you have time. The child has made great progress now ... "

I edited the child's "excellent performance" He just played around, staring at me casually, lowering his head, never looking me in the eye again, rubbing his hands back and forth, embarrassed.

I handed him the phone. "Jun, your teacher is so kind to you. You are sure to succeed. Don't let your teacher down. Your mother and I are in poor health, and we have to go out to work to make money. Isn't it for you and your sister to have a good learning environment? Dad heard that you have made progress, and your mother and I are so happy. Be sure to study hard! " He kept saying "hmm", "hmm", "ok", "got it" and "I will live up to my expectations"

After answering the phone, except "Go home, I'll watch you perform!" "

Before he left, he bowed deeply and choked up and said to me, "teacher, I'm sorry, I was wrong." I know what to do in the future! " "

According to his classmates, he made a solemn apology to the child who was beaten and promised never to make such a mistake again.

Since then, my teachers and I have been delighted to see his changes: he disappeared in class and was replaced by a figure who listened attentively; After class, he disappeared. Instead, he asked the teacher or classmates about their piety. He disappeared after being late. But came to the teacher's study early to do the problem. ...

Everything is changing wonderfully!

Time flies, and soon, the 20 17 senior high school entrance examination is coming. Before the exam, he solemnly said to me, "Don't worry, teacher, I won't let you down!" "

He kept his word and was admitted to the provincial key high school with a score of 738.7 in the senior high school entrance examination.

His mother found me specially and said with tears, "Thank you, teacher, for giving my child a new life!" " "

Mr. Tao Xingzhi said, "In the hands of teachers, the fate of teenagers is the fate of the nation and mankind." Judging from the experience of this child's transformation, the teacher's proper methods can lead the lost child to the bright road, otherwise, it will push the child to the abyss.

Teachers, the future of children is in our hands, so we must be careful with children.

Postscript:

Life is education, and education is life. I put love and patience throughout my education, and finally put a lost child on the right track.

Now, the child who entered high school studies very hard, and his grades keep rising, ranking among the best in his class. After every exam, he will report to me about his grades and his study and life.

In this regard, I am very pleased!

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