1. Peter's chair
Text/Photo: ezra jack keats Translation: Sun Qingfeng
Press: Tomorrow Douban Rating Press: 7.9 points.
Keywords: sharing and adaptation
Main content: This book is about the protagonist Peter, who has a little sister. Because of her arrival, Peter can't talk loudly when playing with building blocks, which will wake her up. My sister was lying in the cradle where my brother slept as a child, and my father painted Peter's high chair as a child pink. Even Peter's crib was painted pink by his father. Peter felt helpless. Seeing that his blue chair had not been painted by his father, Peter grabbed the chair and ran back to his room, trying to run away from home with his beloved toy and puppy.
Walking outside the wall, Peter wanted to sit down and have a rest, but his blue chair couldn't fit in. Because Peter has grown up, this blue chair is no longer suitable for him. Just as his mother asked Peter to have dinner, Peter went home. He sat in an adult's chair and offered to help his father paint the blue chair pink for his sister.
Feelings: The child is naive. He is so young and has such a small mind. He thinks his parents will be jealous when they give his things to his sister, but when he finds that he has grown up and can use the things of adults, when his little toys are no longer suitable for him, he will take the initiative to give them to his sister. The child's heart is clean and pure. Don't criticize children with our adult thinking. Most of the colors in children's lives come from the colors in adults' hearts.
2. "Xiao Kai's home is different."
Text/Photo: English anthony browne Translation: Yu Zhiying
Press: Hebei Education Press Douban score: 8.7.
Keywords: before the arrival of the second child, Dabao's psychological changes
Main content: In the morning, my father told Xiao Kai that he was going to pick up my mother. Xiao Kai looked at everything at home. It didn't seem to change, but his heart was unpredictable. He is very sensitive and seems a little scared. In the book, Xiao Kai looked at everything at home, the kettle turned into a kitten's tail, the shoes turned into birds, the washbasin seemed to have more noses and mouths, a little crocodile lay under the sofa, a gorilla sat on the sofa and so on. He pushed open the door and everything was still.
He doesn't know what he should do. Do you want to ride a bike for a while first? Or climb over the wall to look. When he opened the door, he saw his father, mother and a baby. His mother said to Xiao Kai, "She is your little sister."
Feelings: A casual remark by an adult thinks that trivial things can trigger the fear and anxiety of children's inner world, and make children feel inexplicable anxiety, worry and panic. Children are really sensitive. Xiao Kai was ambivalent when he learned that there was going to be a new baby at home. He longed for the arrival of the baby and was afraid. The author anthony browne is really an expert in painting. He used a static painting style to describe Xiao Kai's inner complex mood. This painting seems absurd to adults, but it is very attractive to children. At the end of the book, the mystery was solved. When Xiao Kai turned on the light and saw his parents and sisters, the anxiety of waiting alone seemed.
I want a younger brother.
Text: France (France) Christian Yoripovatu: (France) Christian Ailisch Translation: Zheng
Press: 2 1 Century Press Douban score: 9.0.
Keywords: sibling cognition
Main content: I want to have a younger brother is one of the series of Different Ksenya Goryachova Camilla, which is about the creation of younger brothers and sisters. Every time Cameli sees someone else having a younger brother to play with, he is especially envious. I wish I could have a younger brother. My mother also patiently told Camille the secret of incubating a new life.
When the hedgehog steals her sister, Carmeli will try her best to save her sister. But when Camille was trapped, her sister couldn't speak, but she understood her brother's cry for help and did not hesitate to pry open the cage and rescue him.
Feelings: In fact, a child has no concept of younger brothers and sisters. He wanted to see someone else's younger brother, but when his mother gave birth to his younger sister, he found that his younger sister could also play with him, and they would try their best to save each other when they needed it. Only flesh and blood love can do this. The child's heart is simple. He just needs a playmate, not a man or a woman.
4. "I am a big sister"
Text: Mayanet Sheldon Figure: Macallan Maetzel Translation: Zhao Dan
Press: Chemical Industry Press Douban score: 9.0.
Keywords: emotional management, personality cultivation, second child
Main content: With a little brother at home, Dabao's world has changed. In the past, the "baby" in my parents' mouth was me, but now it has become a "younger brother". Even my grandmother, who loves me the most, called and just asked, "How is Daniel?" I think they forgot me. I asked my mother to bring me a bowl of cereal. My mother said, "My brother is hungry. He is still a baby. He won't wait. Let me wait. She will bring it to me when she is busy. " My brother is finally full, and my mother helps me with the bowl. She praised me and said, "Kate, my mother is so proud of you for waiting so patiently."
When I want to read a book, my mother is putting my brother to bed. I helped my mother get Daniel's blanket and teddy bear. My mother finally put my brother to sleep, so he can read with me. My mother said to me, "You really helped me a lot. Thank you, big sister. Now we can study. "
When my mother is not at home, I help my father take care of my brother and make him laugh. I feel that I can help my mother take care of my brother when I grow up. Even my grandmother said, "She needs a big child who can help her bake cookies." I think it is good to be needed when I grow up.
Feeling: The arrival of the baby will bring happiness to the family. Everyone will greet her with excitement, curiosity and love, but at the same time, it will also make older children envy, envy and hate. They will worry that their parents will not love themselves as much as before. They often attract the attention of adults through some negative emotions, and sometimes they may pinch the baby. After the arrival of the second child, parents should pay more attention to Dabao's situation and psychological changes. Set aside as much time as possible to accompany Dabao, so that Dabao feels that his position in the Jianghu is permanent. Don't give Dabao too much responsibility. When there is something wrong with Dabao's behavior, telling them the correct and safe way to help Dabao learn to accept and share, adjust his mentality and adapt to his new role at home, which is helpful to cultivate the brotherhood between the two children.
5. a little
Text: Rijiu Village has a picture: Riyoko Translation: Tang Orange Orange
Press: Guangming Daily Press Douban score: 7.6.
Keywords: sister-in-law love
Main content: Xiaonan's mother gave birth to another baby, and her mother was too busy taking care of the baby to accompany Xiaonan. Xiao Nan looked at her mother's busy appearance and did it himself. She learned to pour milk, dress herself, tie her hair, play alone, and the arrival of the second child, which made Dabao grow up a lot.
Feeling: I was a little sad when I read this book. My mother, without the help of the old man, takes care of Dabao when she is too busy. Although I finally gave Dabao a big hug, the independence in front of me made people feel a little distressed. Although the arrival of the second child has made Dabao grow a lot and learn a lot, I still suggest that mothers can give Dabao more comfort while taking care of Bauer, or dad can help his mother at home and spend more time with Dabao. The arrival of the second child has accelerated the growth of Dabao and made people grow up in an instant, which is a bit sad. I hope Dabao can grow up little by little.
6. "Mom is not at home"
Text: Mestan Bodantou: Mei Jian Bodan Translation: Yu Lingyan
Press: Xinjiang Youth Publishing House
Keywords: mom is not at home, interesting things about dad and children.
Main content: This book is about mother bear taking care of her cousin who is about to give birth. Before leaving, she was worried that Father Bear would not take care of the children and that Baby Bear would be naughty, but Father Bear patted his chest and said, "Don't worry, I can take care of them." Mom was not at home, and dad's work was unreliable. My sister ordered my brother to "work blindly", and finally he asked his neighbors for help to complete the task.
Feeling: This book is one of Babe Bear series. It is a set of books that fascinate children and make parents think. It is a good book for parents to read, play and share happily together. It is also a good book for parents to find ways for their children to learn from their examples. We can find solutions to a series of problems that often appear in books.
7. "Dad is mine"
Text: Ilan Boulanger Mann, Brazil Photography: Julianne borini, Brazil Translation: Ren Xiaohong
Publishing House: Shaanxi People's Education Publishing House
Keywords: second child, competing for favor
Main content: The author of this book uses special origami illustrations to tell the influence of two children competing for favor in a family. In contrast, the two children have given up the idea of competing for favor and can work hard to find their father together. The two children and their father live a happy life.
Feelings: It is the most common for second-child families to compete for favor. Parents should guide their children and let them know that mom and dad are their common, not one of them.
8. Share
Text: English Anthea Simmons Picture: English Georgi Birket Translation: Yu Zhiying
Publishing House: Qingdao Publishing House
Keywords: sharing
Main content: This book tells the story between my sister and my brother. My sister likes plush toys, so does my brother. My sister likes animal picture books, so does my brother. My sister wants to do puzzles, and my brother wants to do them. Every time my mother says "two people play together". Although my brother always makes trouble, after a long time, my sister will get used to it. When my sister eats cookies, she will ask my brother if he wants to eat them. When my sister drinks milk, she will ask her brother if he wants to drink it. My sister is used to sharing her favorite things with my brother.
Feelings: Two-child family, two children at home, some toys can be bought by one person, while others need two children to play together. When Bauer wants Dabao's toys, he advises his parents not to explain too much, just to say "Let's play together" and not to take sides. This will make older children feel respected and willing to share their toys with their younger brothers and sisters.
9. Tunnel
Text/Photo: Anthony Brown Translation: Cui
Press: 2 1 Century Press Douban score: 8.3.
Keywords: brotherly love
Main content: This book is mainly about two children with different personalities, who usually behave differently at home. My sister likes reading quietly, and my brother likes playing football and playing practical jokes. One day, my mother was very noisy and asked them to go out to play. In front of a pile of rubbish, my sister was still reading carefully, while my brother got into a tunnel naughty.
My sister waited for my brother outside the tunnel for a long time, but he didn't come out. But the tunnel was dark and she was afraid. At the thought that he was in danger, my sister summoned up her courage and went into the tunnel to look for him. It was dark and wet in the tunnel, and my sister began to fantasize about the dangers of all kinds of wild animals. She was so scared that she ran away. When she saw her brother's shadow, she hugged him happily and they went home together.
Feelings: In a second-child family, it is normal for two children to make noise. They quarrel with each other, sometimes to attract each other's attention. In fact, they don't have any bad intentions, just want to Doby each other, but when one party is in danger or crying, the other party will definitely help her and comfort her at the first time. This is the feeling of brother and sister.
10. Hanging wool
Text: Ice Wave Map: Zhang Duan takes art
Press: Hunan Children's Publishing House
Keywords: kindness and love
Main content: This book is one of the picture books of love and being loved, and tells the tacit understanding and kindness between three mouse brothers. From the perspective of love, this picture book sows the seeds of love in children's hearts, so that children can realize that they are loved and how to love others. There is special love between the three brothers in the book. There is no need to negotiate, they have a tacit understanding. At the same time, they knit warm clothes for the lonely mouse sister for the winter. All three children are kind and compassionate.
Feeling: After reading this book, I feel that teaching children kindness is not only conducive to the unity between brothers and sisters, but also allows children to feel love, thus helping people in need and generating good thoughts.
And finally? The picture book about the second child also has "Count to 10, will mom come?" Miyanishi's "Watcher", I bring the most, because I am my brother, my mother's magic belly, you are all my favorite, love is that we are together, it's good to be a brother, strange little guy, anyone? Sister vs Big Brother, Ricky Becomes Big Brother, Tom Rabbit and Little Paulie are all stories about a family with two children and their children. You can go to the library if you are interested!
I'm @ 京京京京, a stay-at-home mother with a second child, and a family education guide book. I like to share the knowledge related to parenting with you, and I like to pay attention. Thank you!
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