In the face of other people's rumors, first of all, we must remain calm and never interfere with each other. Once we are in a passive position, it is easy for the other party to take advantage of our panic and make the scene unfavorable to us. Moreover, the decision made after calming down is wiser than the decision made on impulse. 2/6
Laugh it off.
If some rumors seem full of loopholes and can't stand scrutiny, then we don't need to make efforts to respond. On the contrary, we can just keep silent or even laugh it off, because such a trite lie is not worth caring about at all, and caring about it will only raise the price of the other party. 3/6
Learn to reflect.
Why don't others tell other people's lies, but only us? Sometimes, we should realize that there is no smoke without fire, and others have their reasons for making rumors, but we should also realize our own weaknesses or deficiencies and learn to improve after reflection. 4/6
Improve yourself.
Seeing that others dare to spread rumors about you shows that your strength is not strong enough, or that you still have various shortcomings. At this time, you should try to make yourself better and stronger. Only in this way can those who tell lies about you see you grow up and eventually disappear. 5/6
Find another way.
Sometimes it is inconvenient for us to respond to our own rumors. At this time, we can respond through your own relatives and friends and attack the parties, so the effect will be better. But many times there is no need to respond to those boring rumors, especially when the rumors don't do you any harm. 6/6
Safeguard interests.
If the nature of the other party's rumor is too bad, which directly hurts your personal reputation, or causes mental harm to yourself, or brings great trauma to your family, then you should learn to use legal weapons to protect yourself and your family. As long as you dare to stand up, the other party may run away immediately. First of all, when someone makes a rumor, we should remain calm and rational, don't be impulsive, and don't back down. When someone is found to be spreading rumors, some people will act irrationally on impulse, while others will shrink back because of cowardice. These practices are all wrong. The correct approach should be to remain calm and rational, deal with it in a reasonable way and let the rumors go bankrupt. Only in this way can our own interests be effectively safeguarded.
Secondly, in the face of rumors, we should argue with reason and clarify rumors with facts. Rumors are rumors after all, and all rumors will be broken in the face of facts. Therefore, in the face of rumors, we should argue according to reason, and pay special attention to proving everything with facts. When you put out the relevant facts, you can effectively clarify the rumors and protect your own interests.