I. What is intergenerational education With the development of the times, more and more young parents are busy with work and have little time to take care of their children, so the burden of raising children inevitably falls on grandparents' shoulders. This phenomenon of grandparents raising and educating their grandchildren is called intergenerational education.
There are many problems about intergenerational education. For example, a couple was busy doing business and gave their son to his grandparents in the country after he was 3 years old. Now the child 10 years old, the mother wants to take him back for a better education. But when the child came back, he found it on him.
Many bad habits, such as self-willed, selfish, bad-tempered, easily throwing things, especially alienating parents, don't take the initiative to talk to them.
Second, the disadvantages of intergenerational education
1, dote on children and hinder their self-growth. When grandparents are young, they may not be able to take good care of their children because of the limitations of living and working conditions. It is easy for them to have a kind of psychological compensation and concentrate all their love for their children and grandchildren on their grandchildren.
Spoiling and paying too much attention to children, so that everything is for children, and children are accommodated everywhere, leading to problems such as willfulness, strong dependence and low self-care ability.
2, causing family conflicts, leading to parent-child estrangement. In the first few years of a child's life, parents have a very important influence on him. After all, for children, parents are his most important relatives. If his parents can't be with him, he will easily feel abandoned.
Leave a shadow in my heart. In addition, children live with grandparents or grandparents since childhood and are used to accepting their protection and accommodation. They may also develop some behavior habits that their parents don't like. When parents take over their children within a certain period of time or completely take over from grandparents, they may be eager to reverse these so-called problem behaviors of their children, and it is very easy for parents and children to have antagonistic feelings. This kind of opposition will make children more alienated from their parents and retreat to their grandparents.