Editor Zhang Ma

They all say that they should raise their daughters well, but there are really not many families who really "raise their daughters well and don't spoil them". Sometimes, "wild" education can make children grow better.

In a parenting family drama, the little girl in the play is a standard "rich man" and the apple of her grandparents' eye. The delicate little princess is really attractive. With the extreme love of her grandparents, she has become a ubiquitous presence at home.

As you can see, the girl set up a tent in the bedroom and refused to sleep late at night. She also asked grandma to pretend to be a servant girl, and grandpa knelt on the ground as a horse before she went to bed.

When the girl was still immersed in the princess dream, her parents brought her back to reality. Facing her mother-in-law's objection, Ma Bao said: You can't always let your child live in a fairy tale world, or her life will be ruined! Indeed, old people's love for children is often innate, and each generation of pets can make children happy and destroy them.

From this photo, we can easily see that although the little girl covered in mud is covered in mud, she still smiles like a flower and has no unhappy or crying mood.

The most eye-catching thing is that the parents on the side did not blame the children but grew up with them. In fact, this educational method is correct.

Professor Li Meijin, a famous child-rearing expert in China, once said in the program: Girl, if she is raised like a good family and she marries a rogue, then she is absolutely miserable and certainly unable to protect herself, so let her daughter be "wild".

Indeed, when raising their daughters, most parents regard their children as canaries in bird cages. In fact, the "wild" mentioned by Professor Li here is not to raise children, but to exercise children's strong heart and personality, so that children have the courage to resist in adversity.

Life is full of possibilities. We should teach our daughter to bravely release her "wildness" to the outside world, so that her daughter can have a strong heart and can't cultivate the tenacious will of the Yellow River. Only girls who want to fight for and live independently can live a wonderful life.

Yoko Ayako, who has often appeared in our field of vision recently, also has such an unknown story. When she wanted to be an actress, her family didn't support her.

So she began to create short videos during her college years, and all kinds of online dramas were shot by her alone. She didn't bow her head in many difficulties, and she has been working hard until now to make her performance obvious to all.

Nowadays, in many traditional families, there is often this strange concept of parenting:

But a girl really shouldn't be a canary in a cage. Have parents ever thought about what would happen if they entrusted their daughter to an inhuman person?

We should encourage our children to face difficulties and spread their wings to soar under the blue sky, no matter what kind of storm lies ahead.

It seems that women are often the "vulnerable groups" in our cognition. Some women will choose forbearance and concession when they meet the so-called "salty pig hands" on the bus, and dare not protect their legitimate rights and interests.

In fact, this is also related to family education. We often educate girls to be "gentle and elegant", but never educate children to be "vigorous and free" in the face of some illegal hazards.

"Darkness is most afraid of light, and the wildness in a girl's character is a sword that splits the dark barrier to meet the light." In fact, sometimes keeping girls "wild" is really a kind of protection.

The world is really more than truth, goodness and beauty. In many dark corners, the ugliness and evil of this world are being staged all the time.

In this seemingly calm but choppy society, parents should let their daughters know:

As parents, we all hope that our children can spend every day happily in the sun. Exercise is a very good choice. Outdoor sports can make people feel happy.

Children should go into nature. Children who stay in the study for a long time lack the liveliness, optimism and sunshine that this age should have. How can they grow up healthily?

And many times, girls are protected too well from childhood, and children who seldom exercise outdoors lack enough frustration and sunny and cheerful attitude towards life.

Therefore, parents may wish to make girls "wild", and girls who love "wild" will have unlimited possibilities in life.

Don't spoil your daughter into a delicate princess. Try to make her "wild" and make life more possible.