Pay attention to girls' self-esteem, self-love and self-improvement in dealing with the opposite sex. Self-esteem means respecting yourself and restraining your behavior with social morality at any time; Self-love is to cherish your body and your reputation; Self-improvement means having lofty ideals, strong will and the spirit of going forward bravely.
Help children set up lofty ideals
Encourage children to strive for self-improvement, focus on their studies, be unwilling to lag behind in all aspects, dare to compete with male students, cherish their youth, be open-minded, tolerant and generous, and don't make a fuss and be sentimental.
Guide children to actively participate in social activities.
Be generous, modest and enthusiastic in social situations. Don't pander, don't laugh and fight with men, use civilized language, don't joke with men, and avoid and fight back in time when you encounter impolite behaviors and words of the opposite sex.
Pay attention to the children's gfd.
Remind children not to wear sexy clothes, not to be topless, not to pose in front of the opposite sex, and not to speak in a strange tone. In social activities, don't be too gorgeous and conspicuous. Don't get too close to your partner when dancing. If you find that the other party has abnormal behavior, you should leave the scene decisively.
Children should be taught not to be tempted by money and material things.
Bad guys with ulterior motives often take advantage of girls' love of dressing up, eating snacks and shopping, such as giving them new clothes and candy, hitchhiking to play in the distance and deceiving them with some sweet words. In this regard, we must be vigilant and never be deceived.
In order to help girls learn self-esteem, self-love and self-improvement, parents should pay attention to close parent-child relationship, so that their daughters are willing to open their hearts to their parents, so as to help them solve problems at any time. For example, when being pursued by a boy, when receiving a courtship letter from a boy, when a daughter has a good impression on a boy, and when reading a love novel, she is willing to tell her parents her inner feelings and expectations and accept the guidance of her parents. This kind of parent-child relationship, this kind of communication between two generations, is conducive to children's self-esteem, self-love and self-improvement.