Chinese parents
Parents in China tend to focus on their children and pay too much for them. They are used to arranging their children's trifles, but forget that children have the right to learn to love and pay.
The balance between love and giving.
Your love is too strong, but you missed the opportunity to let your children learn to be grateful. The more parents pay, the easier it is to encourage children to feel unworthy, and often they can't raise grateful children.
pre-mature consumption; overconsuming
My aunt's family's economic conditions are average. The couple are usually frugal, but they are generous to their son. As long as the son wants something, buy it for him. Auntie often talks about "no matter how hard it is, you can't suffer the child."
Children are superior.
Parents have given everything, but they have bred their children's sense of superiority. Children are used to their parents' efforts, but they don't know how to be grateful and enjoy their parents' efforts with peace of mind.
Learning and growth
Many parents tell their children, "You just have to study hard and we'll do the rest." After a long time, children feel that their parents should pay, but they don't feel the difficulty of the adult world.