Let children learn to handle their own affairs independently. Nowadays, many families are only children, which leads parents to spoil their children too much. No matter what the child asks, parents will meet it unconditionally. This will help children develop the idea of dependence, let them learn to clean their own rooms, let them wash dishes after meals, and let them face and solve problems when they encounter them. When children can't solve them, parents will help them and make them more independent.
Learn to distinguish between rewards and punishments for children. When a child performs well, such as improving his test scores and meeting the requirements put forward by his parents, parents should reward the child according to the corresponding standards, which can meet the child's small requirements or take the child to the place he wants to play. If a child doesn't behave well or doesn't listen to the opinions of adults, and often contacts with some bad people, then parents should criticize the child's behavior and ask the child to correct it immediately.
When formulating family style and family precepts, we must have positive educational significance. In fact, many parents will pass on some of their values to their children, but these values are not positive or wrong. Telling children to learn to take shortcuts in life is actually not conducive to their growth. They must set up a positive thought for their children and tell them to work hard and not be afraid of difficulties and setbacks.