Let's take a look at what happened when the Education Bureau responded to the teacher's dispute about drying gifts.
On September 9th, a teacher from a primary school in dancheng, Henan Province exposed a gift on social media. The female teacher with the net name "Beautiful Skirt" received a bunch of flowers, a box of moon cakes and a box of drinks, and the advantage of being a literate teacher is that she is favored everywhere. Thank you for the Teacher's Day gift from Mother Wang. Some netizens think that the teacher's show-off behavior is inappropriate, while others think that it is understandable for parents to send flowers to teachers. On June 5438+00, the female teacher involved responded that she put the pictures and essays, the flowers were sent by her best friend, and other gifts were sent by the school. The Yucheng Education and Sports Bureau responded that teachers could not accept gifts from parents of students and would deal with them after verifying the situation.
Many times, teachers' enthusiasm for students is killed again and again by such things.
At the end of the video, I heard the teacher's response to the gift-giving event. The sad feeling in the voice makes people feel sad.
In recent years, there are some hot spots in teachers' day and some festivals where teachers receive gifts. I never know why there are so many differences in a decades-old habit or etiquette.
Personally, I think teachers should treat gifts from two aspects.
One is the so-called rebate, or a gift for a certain purpose. For example, some parents have a company at home, and its products are related to education. They sell their products to schools through teachers and give them kickbacks. Or some parents give gifts to make teachers care more about their children, or to let their children go to a teacher's class school.
We should forbid such things, which is also something that teachers should stay away from.
But in recent years, we have seen more students send some flowers or cards to their teachers on holidays, even a box of moon cakes on Mid-Autumn Festival, to show their gratitude to their teachers. Isn't this a normal thing?
If the teacher is treated differently in teaching because of this gift, we can attack the teacher morally, but when this doesn't happen, why should we pursue it?
For children's education, as parents, what we should do is to work with teachers to find ways to give more care to children, instead of spending some energy against teachers. You have to say that some parents nowadays are a little too picky about their teachers' behavior. So that the hands and feet of teachers are bound, and they are allowed to be flat-panel teachers for their own work. More importantly, the behavior of these parents is slowly dousing the flame of love for students as teachers.
Therefore, I don't think this video publisher is appropriate. As an education bureau or a school, it is more important to know things clearly at the first time before deciding to punish them, instead of throwing the teacher out at the first time and punishing him to make himself clean. Is this behavior really good? Moreover, the teacher also said that most of the so-called gifts were sent by girlfriends and schools, so it would be wrong for everyone to attack others again.
Finally, I want to say, what kind of teachers should we train? I believe that teachers on their knees can't teach students with backbone. I hope parents will think it over.
The Education Bureau responded to the controversy caused by teachers' drying gifts. Related reading:
Teacher's Day reception: "drying gifts" is a stupid narcissistic behavior of teachers.
Teacher's Day reception: As a teacher, I only want to pay, not to return.
The topic of education has always been at the forefront of society. Children's education concerns every family and affects the subsequent development of the whole country. The breadth of concern is self-evident. Every year on Teachers' Day, the topic of education has become a hot topic in society.
As a teacher, the more hot-headed, the more sober and rational. Because teachers' day is not "safe" every year. It is reported that teachers receive teachers' day gifts almost every year. This year, a female teacher in Henan felt it was good to be a teacher because of Teacher's Day, and her parents were investigated for giving gifts!
The local education bureau in Henan responded that teachers should not accept gifts, and they should verify the moon cakes and drinks baked by female teachers before announcing whether teachers accept gifts.
While causing the whole society to comment on right and wrong, a self-media blogger commented that it has to be said that our teachers are too pure and simple, and only teachers can bask in the gifts they receive in the circle of friends, which is amazing enough!
The word "wonderful" is shocking.
"drying gifts" is not advocated from the social point of view.
Perhaps this "drying" method has become commonplace in the teacher circle. Students and parents often thank their teachers for their good teaching, either holding flowers or making them themselves ... and giving them to teachers for home-school cooperation. The picture is warm and full of laughter and happiness.
But as a teacher, have you ever wondered whether this "sunbathing" method not only reflects the harmony between teachers and students, work performance or satisfaction as a teacher? Is it possible that it is a disguised form of professional bribery or extortion, or a benefit from professional convenience, whether spiritual or material, and this "sunbathing" method is to remind other parents or students to do something in disguise, or to show off "some happiness" that they get as a teacher in return?
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Therefore, what is not surprising in the teaching circle is the real "wonderful work" in the eyes of others. Indeed, it is very rare for all walks of life to receive gifts on a large scale and take the initiative to bask in them, and then "bask in" the satisfaction and happiness of being loved!
"drying gifts" is not recommended from a professional point of view.
There is no doubt that many teachers are loyal to education, happy to educate and love every child they teach. Education can't be without love, and even this kind of "love" is often mutual, but first of all, we must affirm that teachers are a profession.
In order to prove this, in the eyes of the whole society, teachers are a profession!
Chapter II Rights and Duties of People's Republic of China (PRC) Teachers Law, Article 8, point 4, states that teachers should care for and care for students, respect their personality and promote their all-round development in moral, intellectual and physical aspects.
"Love" students is a professional requirement! In short, as a teacher, I just want to pay, and there is no "return" requirement!
Therefore, students or parents "give gifts", no matter what kind of gifts, are not what we think, nor should they be the reasons for getting happiness, sense of accomplishment and satisfaction, but only reflect the affirmation of teachers' work from the side. And this kind of work itself is what a teacher should do.
A teacher's sense of happiness, accomplishment and satisfaction should come from daily education and teaching work, not "being loved" when receiving gifts!
"Respecting teachers and attaching importance to education" is an excellent traditional culture in China. The purpose of "Teacher's Day" is to respect teachers and attach importance to education. The most important thing in Teacher's Day is how to improve the image and quality of teachers and give them a good image in society, so as to form a social fashion of respecting teachers and emphasizing morality and promote the construction of teachers.
Judging from the purpose of setting up "Teacher's Day" in the above-mentioned countries, "drying gifts" runs counter to it, which is completely a stupid and personal "narcissistic" behavior!