Is Chinese education really right? When two children fight, no matter right or wrong, parents always have to teach their children a lesson first. I admit that there are advantages and disadvantages. Is it really necessary? China's education is that as long as there is a fight, you should scold your children first. This is actually the so-called face project between adults. I want the other party to think that I educated the children, but you didn't educate them well, and your children were uneducated. They fought with my children and created an image of strict father or strict mother. But some parents are not so scheming, just feel that they should do so, because grandparents taught them so, and then a vicious circle comes. But in our generation, we learned a lot of knowledge, only knowing right and wrong, regardless of the world, and then the education methods of the previous generation began to go wrong. The older the child, the harder it is to manage, because the child feels that his parents are indiscriminate, which is true. Children are afraid of their parents when they are young, but when they grow up, they will only feel wronged, that is, their wings are hard, just as their parents said, but in fact their education methods are no longer applicable. So if you really have such parents, you don't need to be in a good mood. Remember, shut up and don't talk, just answer what your parents said. If you don't talk for a while, your parents will naturally find the problem and then start to care about you. At that time, I will talk more slowly, give them a sense of accomplishment, and feel that I have let my son slowly get out of unhappiness. It sounds ridiculous, but I have used it for my parents before, and it is quite useful.