1, psychological aspect

When a child grows up, he learns to think, he learns to read and listen. People he likes are willing to communicate with you, and people he doesn't like will oppose you. Moreover, he will keep some things in his heart and doesn't like to communicate with teachers and parents. If you care about him and attach importance to him, maybe he will tell you his heart when he is happy, and bury it in his heart when he is unhappy, so that you can't understand his thoughts and he can't guide his study.

The fourth-grade children's self-esteem gradually increases at this stage, that is, we usually say that children know that they are "embarrassed" and are afraid of "losing face", so parents should grasp the scale when educating their children.

2. Guide children to do things in a planned way

There is a saying that "everything is established in advance, and if it is not planned, it will be abolished", which means that things should be planned and priorities can be distinguished. Planning is to make reasonable arrangements for things to be done in a period of time, prioritize things to be done, and be strategic in doing things. Only by doing things in a planned way can we improve the efficiency of study and life.

Planning can help children study and live in an orderly way and improve efficiency. Some parents may think that children are only in the fourth grade, and it is a natural reaction and normal behavior to do things without a plan in this period. However, if parents do not pay attention to guidance, this bad habit will bring lifelong troubles to children.

3. Cultivate children's sense of gratitude

We are selfless for our children and ask for nothing in return, but children must have a grateful heart. Some children accept it frankly, regardless of the return, and enjoy it with peace of mind; Some children can share their worries for their parents through their own labor. Parents are the first teachers to be grateful to their children, so children should start from knowing and understanding gratitude, learn to be grateful, and put it into action.

4. Guide children to learn tolerance.

Let them understand adults in a positive sense, and let fourth-grade children understand that parents and teachers are well-intentioned criticisms. Parents and teachers are human beings, have normal emotions and make mistakes. As long as you understand these things with a tolerant attitude, you will not be rebellious.