Li Meijin, an education expert, said in his speech that the core of the home is not the sofa and TV, but the dining table. When a child walks into the dining table, he becomes a member of the family, and we will start to give him a collective impression that this family is a whole, not a single one.
Writer Bi Shumin said, "Parents in the world, if you love their children, let them start to love you and the people around them when they can. This is by no means an adult's selfishness, but a longing for children's lives.
In order to cultivate a grateful and educated child, parents must pay attention to these things.
1, children are not allowed to eat before people arrive.
In some families, parents are still busy in the kitchen, but the children have almost eaten. We should teach him respect.
Professor Li Meijin suggested in his speech that parents can tell their children that they are hungry, and if they want to eat quickly, they can help together. If the family can't go home for dinner, adults should also take their children and leave him a clean meal in advance. A small move subtly taught children to share and respect.
Don't put the best food in front of children, but give it to elders.
Lu Qin, deputy editor-in-chief of China Children's Press and Publication Corporation, once said: "If a family keeps a table and serves food in the wrong place, there will be no place for you in the future.
Today's children are the treasures of the family, and even a few old people in the family often revolve around a child. Some children are exclusive at the dinner table, and such children will eventually grow crooked.
Putting delicious food in front of elders is the most basic courtesy, which can subtly tell children who is the most important person in a family.
? Children are not allowed to treat the family as a restaurant and pick and choose the meals cooked by their parents.
You know, home is not a restaurant. A dish and a meal may not be exquisite enough, but they are all made by parents with their best efforts.
Parents must educate their children from an early age and appreciate the efforts of adults. Don't think it is easy to find fault with food.
Children are not allowed to wipe their mouths and leave immediately after eating.
There is a word in psychology called "feeling unworthy", which means that when a person is used to accepting, he will take everything for granted.
As parents, we must let our children form the good habit of helping to clean up the tableware and garbage after meals. Only in this way can children see the hardships of their parents and feel the hardships of their parents. Learn to take due responsibility and responsibility in labor and dedication.
A small dining table can show a child's character and upbringing, and also affect his future and achievements. The way children eat reveals your family education background. In fact, many parents in life feel that family members don't pay so much attention to eating, and they always indulge their children at the dinner table. There is no bottom line. Forget that there are no small things at the dinner table.
Will a child be good at sharing or exclusive after many years? Is it respect or ridicule? It depends on the family education he has been exposed to since childhood. The highest level for a family to show off its wealth is to have others raising children in their hearts.