1, Fan Wenyi
Parents should not show their competitiveness in front of their children, but should set an example and teach their children not to be complacent when they win, and not to lose their temper and complain when they lose. Parents should avoid looking at their children's win or lose from the utilitarian perspective of adults, underestimate their first and best, and let their children feel and experience victories and setbacks in a relaxed environment, and constantly enrich themselves.
2. Fan Wener
As long as the child doesn't make much progress, you should affirm his achievements and praise him more, so that he can have a sense of accomplishment and enhance his self-confidence. At the same time, don't compare your children with excellent children, so as not to dampen his enthusiasm; We should look at the child with appreciation, and believe that he can do it and become a talent.
3. Fan Wensan
When the child has negative behavior, communicate with him in time, and don't say anything in a few days, because the child will gradually forget what happened at that time, even if his parents tell him the truth, he won't feel much. It is best to discuss with the child before he calms down but hasn't forgotten the whole thing. The ideal time is between half an hour and an hour after the incident.
4. Fan Siwen
In the process of educating children, parents should pay attention to self-emotional management and try to avoid disciplining children when they are irritated or angry; Efforts should be made to establish a good family atmosphere and avoid quarreling and fighting in front of children, showing anger and contradiction; Make friends with children, and spare at least half an hour to chat or play with them every day, so that they can feel love and care.
5. Fan Wuwen
If the child wants to talk to you, parents must put down what they are doing and listen carefully. Don't listen while watching TV, playing mobile phone and doing housework. The child can feel your response, and he will feel that his expression is not taken seriously. Over time, he doesn't want to share his feelings with you. If children can always get your understanding, they will be more confident to confess to you.