? Sometimes we can't control our emotions, and we are accidentally angered by our children's words and deeds, so that we completely lose patience with our children, start urging them, and even yell at them.
? Parents are anxious, perhaps because everyone doesn't want their children to lose at the starting line, but it turns out that life is not a sprint, nor a middle-distance race, but a marathon.
? The winner of the marathon will never win by jumping the gun, because there is no jumping the gun on the long road of life. There is still a long way to go, and only the last second will know who will spend it.
? Children's growth is a process of accumulating knowledge and experience, which can't be achieved overnight, only step by step. There is no way for children to grow up in vain, and every step counts.
? However, in the process of children's education, parents and teachers don't have enough time to let their children take their time because of the pressure of further studies and employment.
? Behind every child, there is a large group of people chasing the child. They kept pushing the children forward. Sometimes we only pursue speed, but forget the effect, which makes the parent-child relationship worse and worse, and constantly staged parent-child stories of chickens flying and dogs jumping.
? Let yourself and your children miss a lot of beautiful scenery in life, and also add a little fireworks to the intimate parent-child relationship.
? Both parents and teachers should adjust the direction and focus of education according to the growth characteristics of children, and try to communicate and educate in a way that children can easily accept. .
? Constantly cultivate their own literacy and basic skills. On the way to education, accompany children to quietly appreciate the beauty of life, accompany children to see flowers blooming and falling, and accompany children through childhood and youth.
? Everyone is saying that grades are very important. In fact, we use the standards of adults to decisively judge the future of children. Maybe parents are too worried. It may be because we have experienced or seen what kind of negative effects bad exams will bring us, so I hope our children will not make the same mistakes again and make us too sensitive to our grades.
? But children can't feel the same way. He is not old enough to be responsible for his actions, and he can't understand his parents' pains. As a result, the parent-child relationship has evolved into the opposite.
Perhaps we pass on the gains and losses of the adult world to our children too early, hoping that they will take fewer detours or not repeat the detours we have taken, but forget that the child is his own master and everything in the future will be experienced and faced by him. Even as parents, we can't arrange and replace them. Too much parental intervention will only make children bored and even try to escape.
? What we have to do now is to make ourselves happy, look at the problem calmly from the child's point of view, indirectly influence the child with our own behavior, and make him laugh at life and dare to accept all the challenges of life.