Scientific practice: Young parents are advised to let their children recite children's songs more often. Children perceive things from appearances, and they are willing to listen to specific images. Children's songs cater to children's tastes with lively language, which is easy to cut into children's hearts and can play a variety of roles.
2. Let children learn skills too early. Truth analysis: After using the computer for a long time, they will feel dizzy and ache all over. Children lack self-control and are easily addicted. This will lead to children's unintentional learning of things in textbooks, leading to a decline in academic performance.
Scientific practice: There are many things that children can do and play, and it's not too late to learn again when they are older.
3. Parenting, dad is an outsider. Truth analysis: children are parents' children, so educating children is not just a mother's business. Don't rule out the husband. Give your child a complete family education, not just a father or mother.
Scientific practice: learn together and make progress together. Work together to find a successful way to educate children, and don't take it as something that one person can accomplish. Strict father, a loving mother, is necessary for every child to grow up. They are like two rulers, measuring the degree of children's growth and guiding their direction.
4. Truth analysis of comparing children with others: Some parents like to compare their children with other people's children, thinking that this can motivate their children, but in fact it is very troublesome for children and makes them very painful.
Scientific practice: every child's development is different, and every child's development has its own laws. At this time, you should treat it with a normal heart and a relaxed mood. Always trust your children, don't just see their shortcomings, but don't see their advantages. We should encourage and praise them more, instead of constantly criticizing and accusing them.
5. Paying too much for children is spoiled by truth analysis: some parents have broken their hearts for their children and have to do everything by themselves for fear that something will go wrong with them. This is mainly reflected in the doting on children and single-handedly arranging their lives. This is actually very unfavorable to the growth of children, and it is easy to cultivate children into flowers in the greenhouse. As long as you leave your parents, it is difficult to survive. Learning will not be independent and self-reliant. Without their parents around, they will panic.
Scientific practice: Let children do and face some things as much as possible, cultivate their self-reliance ability, and form a good habit of bravely facing difficulties and setbacks. When children encounter problems, they should be taught how to solve them, not directly.
6. I think that children are the only hope and spend too much money on them. Truth analysis: Many parents think they are the only hope, so they invest in their children and always want to send them to learn more knowledge and skills and enroll in various cram schools. This practice will actually put a lot of pressure on children, not to mention whether the training class is of interest to them. A person's learning task is already very heavy, and it is not a burden for them to enroll in so many cram schools.
Scientific practice: Let nature take its course, don't force it, there is no need to make your children decathlon, and there is no need to make them geniuses. Listen to their voices and don't always impose your ideas on your children. Most importantly, children can grow up happily and healthily.
7. Always pay attention to the child's past, but can't see the child's present truth analysis: As the child grows up, parents always like to say to the child, "How did you behave before?" I thought this would make the child correct, but in fact, the child will only be impatient. They will think that you really denied their growth and their present, so they don't want to listen to your teachings anymore.
Scientific practice: every child will grow and change, and it is impossible to stay the same. Parents should adapt to this change in their children, no matter what kind of person they used to be, and pay more attention to their present and future. Find problems, help correct them, and guide them on the right path.