Mencius, a famous saint in ancient China, lost his father and was raised by his mother with great pains. Fortunately, he has a good mother. Meng Mu attached great importance to Mencius' education.
In order to create a good learning environment for Mencius, Meng Mu moved three times, which is the famous "Meng Mu moved three times" in history. Meng Mu was good at observing and understanding Mencius' personality characteristics, knowing that he liked to imitate others' words and deeds, and finally moved to the vicinity of the school, which enabled Mencius to learn proper manners and speech at an early age and made him interested in learning. In today's modern society, even if parents spend a lot of money, they should let their children go to "prestigious schools" and let their children receive the best education. But parents rarely ask about their children's study, only care about their children's work. Although some parents are willing to take time out from work to tutor their children, they are also helpless because their children's academic qualifications are not high. Most children go to several cram schools every week. But I feel that learning needs to depend on myself! Excessive tutoring can only make you dependent on cram schools. Therefore, I don't think "sky-high" tuition is a good policy.
When Mencius was a child, people had not attended the "sky-high" cram school, but in the end they became a generation of sages. Why is this? We still have to find Meng Mu. Meng Mu was very strict with Mencius, but she knew how to educate Mencius. Mencius once skipped class and went home when he was a child because he was tired of going to school. Meng Mu didn't beat and scold or talk about anything. She cut the cloth that was about to be woven short and warned Mencius not to give up halfway. Mencius understood his mother's good intentions, stopped skipping classes and concentrated on his studies. This is "Meng Mu's Broken Weave". Meng Mu attached importance to Mencius' moral education, instead of letting him blindly study and pursue fame and fame, and become a "bookworm" who only "ignored others". It is Meng Mu's education that will bring up a generation of sages-Mencius. Although Mencius' success is inseparable from his acquired efforts, how could Mencius have a brilliant life without the correct guidance and education of Meng Mu? With Meng Mu's intelligence, today, she will be a successful woman!
Stories such as "Meng Mu's Three Movements" and "Meng Mu's Broken Weaving", which are well known to women and children, are praised by the world. We don't have to be a great sage like Mencius, and we don't have to have a "talented woman" mother to become a talent. We should learn the real skills by our own efforts and win by our own persistence. We don't have to be a blockbuster, but we must learn knowledge, learn to be a man and cultivate moral character. Learning is not studying hard, but learning to be a man. Hard work the day after tomorrow is indispensable, and a good education is also very important. A good education can accomplish everything!