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In family education, who should be educated most, children or parents? Why?
When it comes to education, everyone thinks of children, don't they? 90% people think so, but it's not. In parenting education, parents are also the objects that must be educated. Although parents are adults, adults also have cognitive limitations. As children's first teachers, they need to make themselves more and more extreme, don't they? Therefore, I think parents must educate.

To give a very simple example, in a class group, although the teachers treat each other equally and give lectures diligently, the grades of the class group are still divided into three or six grades. Why? Is it the teacher's problem? Guided by the unified examination syllabus, teachers hold weekly teaching and research meetings. This is the student's problem? Why do some people get high marks easily, some people work hard, and some people sleep late in class? This is inseparable from the home behind each child. Parents are the most important people in the family.

It can be seen that children from divorced families encounter a lot of unresolved differences in their marriage life, because their parents did not give their children a regular sample of their marriage life. Maybe even parents came together when they didn't understand what husband and wife were, but there were many differences in actual implementation, and then they didn't want to spend time learning to manage their married life, so they broke up and put the children under heavy pressure. I wonder if children can study safely and grow up healthily and happily in this family environment. Naturally, success will also affect children, but why do many successful parents bring up unsuccessful children? This is also an interesting and sad topic discussion. Because parents work well does not mean that they are also excellent at home, and excellent work is often based on the result of not being at home.

For example, there is an excellent teacher who has always achieved excellent results in class collective exams and is rated as an excellent teacher every year. Even his boys envy his father's students. Because my father is gentle and cares about his students, he only blames himself. As a father and an excellent teacher, it is hard to accept that his children's grades are not ideal. Every time I see my father's chilling expression on myself, the child becomes more and more depressed. It is said that it is never too old to learn, but in real life, few people want to keep their learning mentality. If people don't release their cognitive ability immediately, they will be eliminated at once. Parents don't continue to work hard until they know new professional knowledge. Children should follow their parents and choose the same life path as their parents.