Beckham's impression of Shuo Yang is still in the small bag of Ode to Joy, which everyone loves.

This time, Shuo Yang starred in the international version of Where is Dad Going? By mango Taiwan, he became an unusually fierce and neurotic father.

Is military training parenting severe or paranoid? Strict father's loving mother is the characteristic of China's family. Many people have the impression that their father is unsmiling, but they can still feel his love for themselves.

The strictness of Shuo Yang gives people a sense of severity to fierceness.

In the pilot film, Shuo Yang inspected his son's academic performance. He spot-checked the children's homework and asked what the central idea of this article was.

When his son Yang Yuchen didn't answer, Shuoyang immediately became angry: "Didn't you say you finished reading? Go back and reread! "

Going back and starting over has almost become a mantra of Shuo Yang. As long as Xiao doesn't do what he wants, he will ask Yu to do it again.

No sooner had they got off the bus than they got off from different directions. Shuoyang asked Chen Yu to go back and walk again.

Because the clothes didn't fit, Shuoyang went into a rage when he walked in rainy days: "Can't you walk?" ? Toes forward. "Also called children to walk again.

Xiao likes to fold his pants on the bed, while Shuo Yang's habit is to fold his pants on his hands, so he asked him to fold them again. Chen Yu couldn't learn, so he continued to reprimand loudly: "I can't learn this."

Some people say that it is also good for children to correct bad habits.

However, Beckham believes that everyone's habits are different in the way of folding clothes, and there is no need to force them.

The outstanding educational model makes people feel more, which is a strong desire for control and paranoia.

What makes people even more angry is that he mocked the children in a strange way.

In the process of choosing a house, Chen Yu Jr. chose Room 5 as the highest position, and Shuoyang began to be "cynical".

"Didn't you choose the number? Are you happy now? "

Yang Yuchen left without saying a word, and Shuo Yang continued to blame:

"Didn't you say that 5 is your lucky number? Great! " By the way, pointing to 1 room: "Is this what I want to choose?"

Because the journey is too far, little Chen Yu's physical strength can't keep up. Shuoyang threatened the children. If you step on the threshold first, you have to go back.

The frightened trotted to the front and stepped into the yard first.

Even Jordan chan, the representative of strict father, thinks Shuoyang is too harsh on children.

Violent parenting is hereditary. Many viewers said after watching the program that there is nothing wrong with strict parenting. If Chen Yu is the kind of boy who is soft and careless, they may become a "sand sculpture" father-son relationship.

But the point is, Chen Yu Jr. is an excellent boy, and his constant reprimand, ridicule and denial are not frustration education for him, but mental abuse.

Mental violence is no less harmful than physical violence.

When his father was away, Yang Yuchen took care of jiaozi and Jasper like a big brother. In front of his father, Chen Yu looks like a quail, but Nuo Nuo has no personality.

After watching the program, many people said that seeing Chen Yu Jr. is like seeing yourself as a child. The harder you work, the more isolated you are, and the more sensible you are, the more inferior you are. ...

It takes a lifetime to cure the misfortunes suffered in childhood.

Shuoyang himself grew up under the violent control of his father.

He once said in the program: "I was beaten since I was a child. I think I can sue him and lock him up like he hit me. "

Because of being treated with violence, I feel inferior and autistic, and I have emotional control disorder. Anyone who dares to speak of himself will be killed.

He said that he would never forgive his father and hated violent education. But now, he turns physical violence into mental violence and continues to control the children.

There is a saying that we will eventually live the life we hate the most.

Many people encounter misfortune in childhood and want to make changes, only to find that their parents' influence is like a bug attached to their bones, which is subtly implanted into their words and deeds. Even if they try their best to restrain themselves, they still have the shadow of their parents

There's a problem on Zhihu. If you were a parent now, would you do better than your parents?

A netizen said, I thought I would do better, but when I became a mother, I found that I inherited my mother's file and my daughter inherited mine, which was as difficult for my mother at that time as I am now. ...

A happy family inherits love and tolerance; On the other hand, violent families inherit injuries and fears.

David Beckham has something to say. David Beckham once asked his classmates who had become mothers. Have you ever regretted anything?

I thought she would say early marriage and childbearing, giving up her career and so on. Unexpectedly, what she regrets most is her attitude every time she helps her children with their homework.

Because you can't control your emotions well, if you hurt them, the impatient tone will be unconsciously revealed, and when you react, it has already caused harm to the children.

She can only apologize to the child afterwards and tell him that she loves him.

Everyone will become a "master" at some point, but many people don't know that it has caused secondary harm to children.

Everyone is a parent for the first time. How to make children grow up in love is a subject that everyone should learn.