In family education, the father is an example and the mother is a mirror.
Dad is an example.
Decide the direction of the child.
There are thousands of roads to education, and example is the most reliable shortcut.
By observing the father's behavior and daily contact with his father, children will form self-cognition, and then imitate, thus affecting their own gender cognition, intelligence cultivation and personality perfection.
A qualified father doesn't need to be rich and capable, but let his career grow with his children. When he becomes a role model in the eyes of children, why worry that he will be desperate to take a detour in life?
Only when the father sets an example can the child's future have a direction.
Mom is a mirror.
Reflect the temperature of the family.
If the father plays the role of a pilot in the family, then the mother is the emotional regulator in the family.
In a family, if someone loses his temper, it is like throwing a stone on calm water, sometimes it is a fine ripple, which spreads slowly, but sometimes it can set off a storm.
Mother is the core of family emotions, and mother's emotions determine the temperature of the whole family.
A mother who is emotionally stable, does not lose her temper or complain is the source of her child's inner security and temperature.
The best family education
That is, parents should be the best themselves.
I often hear such words in my life: "Like father, like son, like mother, like daughter.
Educating children is to fight for their parents, not for money and status, but for parents' educational attitude and requirements for themselves and their children.
It is very simple to ask for children, just open your mouth, but it is difficult to ask for yourself, which requires self-discipline and perseverance.
However, it is often difficult to cultivate excellent children by asking only children and not parents.
Because it is better to set an example for parents than to preach a thousand sentences.