The word "male" itself is very interesting, from top to bottom, a "field" and a "force".

Figuratively speaking, in ancient times, men had to work hard to make a living.

But in today's society, men must know more about its hidden meaning. Men should be responsible and brave.

Courage, responsibility and hard work are what men should look like.

Career is a responsibility, family is a concern, and children are an obligation.

If you can't practice these three fields well, even if you have great skills, it will be in vain.

The first point: career

As a man, the most basic requirement is to support the family and make a living.

Career is a man's vitality.

If a person has nothing to do and nothing to do in his life, his life will inevitably be too dull and boring.

Remember Frank, a retired soldier in "The Smell of Women"? He always talks about women.

But even though he waltzed with a sexy and charming bar girl, drank Bacardi breezer glass after glass, had a lot of money, and Tom was his guide dog, he still stood firm and wanted to end his life.

An accident blinded him. After retiring, Frank lost his career, his life fell from the peak of brilliant achievements to the bottom, and he lost the hope of survival.

In life, men have a lot of yearning, but career is definitely a part that men can't give up.

Elders often say that it is a man's duty to settle down when he is old.

It must be a good thing for a man to be enterprising, because he wants to work hard to give his family a better life.

It is undeniable that many "home cooks" in today's society are also very happy, but it must also be admitted that this is because the burden that men should bear is picked up by women at home.

A man without a career is bound to be a little humble, especially easily tempted by the lights outside, and naturally he will gradually forget his responsibilities.

In today's society, the survival of the fittest is the world. Without excellent strength, men have no material sources and materials, how can they talk about responsibility and provoke family burdens?

Oil, salt, sauce and vinegar are the main tone of life. Only when a man can afford a career can he have the strength to shoulder the family.

Part II: Family

From a boy to a man, a very important aspect is the sense of responsibility.

It's easier to fight a mountain than to defend one.

It only takes a moment of faith to enter marriage, but it takes both of them to do their best to protect marriage.

If the family is all carried by women, then this family will certainly not be stable.

In recent years, the famous actor Jason Wu has broken people's understanding of him again and again.

Many people say that Jason Wu is a visionary with money in his pocket.

But in fact, Jason Wu's success now depends on the support of his lover Iola.

His lover's support also comes from Jason Wu himself who is a responsible and courageous person.

Jason Wu once said:

"The benchmark for measuring a man should not be considered from the outside. We should measure whether he meets the standard from his masculinity, his sense of responsibility and his courage to take responsibility. "

Jason Wu's son is a premature baby. He was sent to intensive care unit as soon as he was born. See son's life and death is uncertain, fearless Jason Wu also showed weakness:

"I'm miserable. If you need me, don't ask my son. "

Since then, this iron-blooded man has had more care and responsibility. During his work, he ran home to accompany his children's wives whenever he had time, and even showed his love in Weibo.

He said: "I think a real man is not competing with his wife, but knowing how to show weakness." Women should be loved. "

Huang Lei once said:

"Usually at home, the posture is low, the bones are soft, and men who rely on their wives are generally stronger outside. This is because such people have strong self-confidence.

On the contrary, if you think you are great at home and always love to be true to your wife, such men are generally not very smart outside. "

No one can succeed casually, but a serious, down-to-earth, warm and considerate man, who loves his wife and children, has a sense of responsibility and dares to take responsibility, dares not even think about it.

What a good man needs is courage and responsibility.

In daily life, I am not confused when I encounter difficulties. I sincerely respect family problems and have a home in my heart.

At work, even if you accomplish nothing for a while, you are enterprising and self-motivated;

In family life, I also have the strength to control the overall situation, and I have a clear plan and control ability.

In the family, if there is no man who dares to take responsibility, he will suddenly fall down like a rootless tree in the face of wind and rain.

In family, the role of men is very important. Whether a man is sincere or not affects the happiness of his family.

Part III: Children

In family education, fathers are role models for children.

Children who grow up in father's love, dare to break through and try, often have a stronger and higher upper limit.

Ceng Jize, Zeng Guofan's son, always followed his father's example, and followed his father's example in dealing with people and being an official.

After that, he became an official in North Korea and showed no less ability than his father in political affairs.

Zeng Guofan's reputation fell to the bottom when he handled the Westernization-"Tianjin Religious Plan". Zeng Guofan realized the importance of diplomacy, so he often reminded Ceng Jize to look at the world.

Ceng Jize later learned a foreign language, and he was destined to stand up where his father fell.

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Disappointed, Ceng Jize played an outstanding role in foreign affairs, defended national sovereignty on the territorial issue of Xinjiang, and became the most famous diplomat in China at that time.

For society, many fathers are just ordinary people, but for children, fathers bear their whole world and are heroes on their life path.

Father's love, like a mountain, is indomitable spirit, resilience and fraternity, strength and justice, guarding children's childhood, making them feel safe and learn to be strong.

As a father, the greatest success is not to earn a silver mountain and a golden mountain for the family, but to overcome thousands of difficulties and dangers. No matter how busy you are, you must take time to accompany your children.

In life, it is impossible for a man to escape the word "responsibility".

If you can't bear the burden of career, family and children, you can't be an indomitable and flexible man.

A man who dares to take responsibility and has a sense of responsibility is a qualified man and worthy of a woman's lifelong commitment.

Life is short, so we must try our best to be what live high wants, and to open up live high.

Even if you can't be a great person, being a responsible and courageous person is also successful.

May every man in the world be indomitable and flexible.

Can withstand the pressure, endure hardships, and become a big umbrella to shelter your family from the wind and rain.

May every man in the world plow his own acre and land, dare to take responsibility, and be worthy of being a man!