This is not absolute. Some free-range children are really "free-range" and have no scruples, not to mention self-discipline and self-management Some free-range children can form strong inner self-management and restraint ability. Why is there a contrast before and after? Different age groups apply different educational methods. In childhood, the consciousness of autonomous learning has not yet formed. At this time, parents must play the role of guidance and supervision. Letting go will make children more confused and at a loss. When children have their own autonomous learning ability, they have a certain awareness of autonomous learning.
Let children go to nature to feel the harmony between man and nature, and let them be in the physical environment. Let the child fall in love with the blue sky and white clouds, soft land, tall and straight trees, low grass and hard stones, so that his life is full of strength because of nature, and everything can nourish him. Stocking is not to let children bloom freely and grow freely, but to properly discipline and temper leniency with severity, so that children become ignorant. Parents have the responsibility to enlighten, enlighten and dispel doubts about their children. Parents are children's initial compass. What do parents want their children to do first?
In fact, stocking education needs environment. If a big coffee scholar's family is illiterate, the possibility of mediocrity is too small. Just like Gao, his family has a master's degree. Even if he doesn't love the basic subject, he will find his own love and study it.